Are You A Talkative Or A Quiet Person?

I am a quiet and introvert person. Cannot make friends easily.
When we must moved to USA, my husband used to push me to make friends with Indians living in our apartment. I used to get angry at him.
Slowly I changed and became more social.
Both has its own pros and cons.
Talkative people have to be careful when they speak about their personal relationships and stuff.
Talkative people tend to be more happy and adjust easily in any country.
Quiter people tend to have more focus on whatever activities they do.

 

I used to be very talkative, speaking my heart out until I was exhausted at the sound of my own voice. Because of that tendency I fed a lot of information to people, some of whom turned words said against me, judged me, used that information for their own selfish needs at my cost .. basically by being talkative, I made myself available to be punched if one chooses. For a long time, I thought people weren't trustworthy. Later, I realised I was talkative and needed change. Much talking is the cause of danger. I learnt being silent and stopped being chatty.

Life is so very peaceful now.

 

I dont know how to put it across, i am talkative with mt group and try to limit my talks withe others, simply because I don't want new friends, fake talks, and show offs..
I love to talk and to to stay silent. I love to listen and to be listened to.
Hugs
Nandini

 

I am quiet and reserved. I only talk freely with people I know really well. My closest friends are still mostly my childhood friends from school and my college classmates. I do have good friends I have made over the years but I’m happiest curled up with a book.

 

I am very very talkative person. I get along well with everyone and I make friends easily, I love meeting new people, making new friends. DH and my friends call me a magnet. Though I am friendly and talkative I don't share my personal things or very very limited I share.