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Those perfect MIL-DIL scenes.. beware highly imaginary!!!

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by maroon, Mar 17, 2013.

  1. prettydevil

    prettydevil Platinum IL'ite

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    :rotfl:rotfl:rotfl

    Amen Dear ;-) .....
     
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    vvlakshmi1985 Senior IL'ite

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    Nice post......So here is mine....

    DIL : Comes home from office.
    MIL : Opens door with smiling face and asks how was your day....
    DIL : it was good ma....
    MIL : Come I have made your fav dinner ....
    Dh & MIL : Serve me for a change.....

    MIl : Scolding DH, where are you ? serve properly , go get her some water .......

    I wish this happens some day.................
     
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    bubblygal Platinum IL'ite

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    Hehehehe thnx!
     
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    mercyagin Gold IL'ite

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    When i posted this message, i was newly married. Once I got pregnant, her whole attitude changed. She and hr daughter harrased me a lot after I got pregnant.
     
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  5. Thyagarajan

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    Heard of dream girl. But there are Dream MIL s too. Touchwood. Bit it was all in 2013. Now we are in pandemic 2020-21. Hope the situation same with you!
    Regards.
    God Bless.
     
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    Ria84 Bronze IL'ite

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    There are few bad and good experiences with inlaws. The bad experiences, don't know what to say!! But bad experiences are very very little. Cannot expect the love of parents from inlaws. But they r pretty decent people and I respect them. There is a saying that one needs to remember the good things the people do to you than the bad.

    Here are a few good experiences:

    1. Once when I was frying, my palm touched the oil in the pan and the pan fell down. The whole oil was scattered on the floor of the kitchen. My palm was little bruised. My fil asked me to not enter the kitchen and said that he would clean the whole kitchen and he applied some burnol to my palms. He didn't allow me to cook that day . Mil on the other hand came and put some Raghavendra swamy mantrakshate (holy rice) on my head to kind of keep me safe. This incident happened last year lockdown.

    2. When I was pregnant, my fil few times prepared some nice dishes for me.

    3. On everyonez birthday, I prepare sweets and some delicious dishes. So during my birthday, once or twice my fil prepared some nice dishes for me. Since he is old now, husband doesnt let him do much. So my husband and kids prepare for me.

    4. I have a cook and maid, since it's lockdown now, they r not coming. My fil knows it's difficult to do everything by one person. So tries to help how much ever he can for his age like chopping vegetables etc. He even tells me to get help from my kids, so that they'll know how to do things and that will be helpful when they have to live alone in the future. Also he keeps asking my kids to help me as I'm doing all alone.

    5. Whenever I'm going out and have to take the car out of the compound or garage, if he is present there at that time, he says that he'll close the gate and that I need not get out of the car to close.
     
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  7. Thyagarajan

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    This feedback is like breath of fresh air.
    Mil and Fil quoted here must be North Stars.
    One must thank parents of this MIL & FIL : but for their parents nurturing, seldom would get such a pair as PIL.
    THE WORLD spin on its axis & monsoon rains pour in time only because of such olds amidst us.
     
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    LOL SHIlpa MA
     
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    JUst Like @ShilpaMa, my MIL's words and voice drip with honey but is pure poison

    1) Mil - Please don't misunderstand me no?:smirk:
    2) MIL - I have no such thing in my mind. Nothing against you. In fact I want you to consider me as your own mother:rolleyes:
    3) MIL - (on daughter's day ) Happy daughter's day to soulful
    ME - I pick up my daughter to give her a kiss.
    MIL - I was saying this to you - YOU are my daughter
    ME - want to puke :BangHead:
     
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    just realized this thread is from 2013!! oh my goodness!!
     
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