Do You Pay For Your Parents Tickets To Visit You?

As everyone rightly said, even if in the heat of the argument, your dh saying he will treat her as babysitter and "wait and watch" threatening was uncalled for.
How did your husband treat your mother previously when he paid for her tickets and she visited you guys?
If he genuinely treated her well like a family member then maybe this time he either got influenced by his mother or someone to act like this.
In either way, I agree with others. Don't bring your mother and get her insulted in your home. She doesn't deserve that treatment. If your dh refuses to pay for tickets, you take your kids and go visit your mother.
All the best.

 

Whenever I can, yes. I feel like it is my job to do so.

 

Yes, we always pay for my parents travel!

 

It is very sad to read this post, even in these times Girls parents are treated with discrimination. Women are no less and we do more than men, work and also take care of home, but hardly few men even understand or appreciate that. Please always stand for you think is right, it will give your inner peace. It is hard to please everyone. We pay for both parents and in laws ticket. I am working though, not sure if things would have been different if I did not work. But I have a friend who doesn't work and her mom visits almost every year and she takes care of the expense. Good luck and hope you are able to sort things amicably.

 

Nobody is waiting in line for him to treat them badly. Not you, not your mother. Ask him to get down that bloody horse first.