Inform Her...

Hi, i met a guy thru a friend and we become good friends. However i found out later that he sleeps around every week and even had an affair with a hooker for a year. He confessed he has a sort of sex addiction. His wife stays in India and he stays in Dubai. When he tried to get close to me I stopped talking to him. Now should I inform his wife about this? If it was one affair then maybe i would not have bothered but multiple partners and hookers sounds super shady to me and dangerous to his wife. Also he tells people that his wife and he are not really together and are just staying together due to their children and she cheated on him which may not be true at all. Guess he says that to all to get close to women.

 

i do know her thru a friend and she is blissfully unaware of him doings. I was not going to tell her in person, possibly mail her anonymously though maybe the guy would suspect it was me, no way to be sure. He cannot harm me for sure. I also have some evidence to attach that he meets multiple women and lies about his wife. No, will not be discussing the sleeping around and hooker part as the evidence i have does not support that, this is something that he shared with me personally. The purpose would be to make her alert so she can check whats going on. I feel bad for her. Why does he have to put her down in order to gain sympathy from other women, its such a crass thing to do. Again Im saying that, had it been 1-2 affairs only and he was back on track, I would not have bothered. But this guy is still very much sleeping around, inspite of covid with anyone and everyone.

And yes i have blocked him out.

 

Thank you all for your suggestions. i have decided after a lot of thought and reading your replies that I will let her know. I have evidence that he actually chatted and asked for dates and relationships from other women (who told me because they knew that I know him) and shared their conversations. He tells everyone he is lonely and his wife cheated on him and that they are not together other than for their daughter which is totally untrue and unfair on his part, to put her down. He is mentally sick and a sex addict for sure. He used to even boast to me just before I cut him off as to how easily he got women for ONS's in bars.

People above who have replied have also said that maybe she knows but there is no way she knows. She is unaware and is a modern independent woman. She deserves to know that she is being fooled and may even fall prey of any diseases. Even if he knows it was me, there is nothing he can do as what I have attached are real conversations and not just my assumptions or theories.

Will let you guyz know how this turned out!

 

Hi all, just to update i sent the mail and signed off as a well wisher, she asked for more info and proof which i said i do not have, then she told me thank you very much for informing her...i feel i did right, so she can take a decision...