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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Rihana, Nov 20, 2019.

  1. Amica

    Amica IL Hall of Fame

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    The cat seems to get their tongue either way. Judging by IL posts, it doesn't make much of a difference whether the marriage was arranged by the couple or by the parents.
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    Amica IL Hall of Fame

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    :lol: Cute!
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    Talking of property ownership and trespass, the recent OP about a Neighbour Issue also brings forward a similar issue.....
    Condominiums (Mansion flats in the Asian parlance) have individually owned spaces, and joint-use spaces. Here is a post (closer is misspelled closure) where it is six-of-one-or-half-a-dozen-of-the-other as to what "closure" the OP was talking/thinking about. While "closer" is an intermediate step, "closure" is so terminal :grinning:.
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    Grace Hopper, USN Rear Admiral​
    This high powered senior lady suggests "It's easier to ask forgiveness than it is to get permission". Member should go ahead and use his space, and then if he objects, say sorry.
     
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    nemesis Platinum IL'ite

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    Astrologers of late are predicting outcomes of football, cricket and even rainfall. So here's the chart of this thread, born on 8.58 AM IST 20-11-19.

    2019-11-20T08_58_1264527_1_sr_en.png

    Our resident astrologer (pragaspathy?) might tell us when the 7.5 effect will begin.
     
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  5. Amulet

    Amulet IL Hall of Fame

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    Sometimes in songs, the lyrics are clever, but somebody missed out on counting syllables and measuring meters for a good melody. Although the songstress makes an attempt, this is one of those songs that offers good philosophy, but fails as a melody.
    [A neighbour in a condo/mansion had made a few passes, should she catch ? was a kwestin put to the readers, and some have eventually come forward and given her a conditional go ahead.]

     
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    Twinkel Platinum IL'ite

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    Vaikuntha Platinum IL'ite

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    This is the exact reason, I keep coming back to IL RForum.
    I feel, "now, finally someone understands me!"
     
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    Root Cause of it all......
    Here is a painting of The First Man blaming the woman who tricked/goaded/forced him into it, whatever it is that he is being rebuked for.

    The Rebuke of Adam and Eve
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    Painting by Domenichino (Italian), permanent display at the National Gallery of Art, Washington D.C.
     
  10. Rihana

    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Clever lyrics and good philosophy for life. The suggested states remind me of FB's "feeling ..." statuses. : )

    If You Can't Be Good (Foglino)

    If you can't be good, be careful
    If you can't be careful, be tough
    If you can't be tough, be lucky
    If you're unlucky, don't fall in love

    If you can't be wise, be clever
    If you can't be clever, be cool
    If you can't be cool, be honest
    If you're dishonest, don't be cruel

    I let my conscience try to guide me
    I let my conscience cut and run
    I want someone who'll stand beside me
    Even after all the things I've done

    If you can't be free, be patient
    If you can't be patient, be right
    If you can't be right, take it easy
    If you're uneasy, just get through the night
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