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Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by ennaye, Jan 16, 2009.

  1. malligashivaram

    malligashivaram Gold IL'ite

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    Yes, our lives are predestined 50% they rest depends on us. Mutual understanding of two families thier background, enviromental differances and the main willingness to change fixed habits selfishness interfrences from people whom we consider outsiders for a looong time till we settle down get over our sadness of leaving our loving parents it does take time, love between the couple will get you through. Unmatched horoscope does not mean that you dont suit each other in fact love means ther is something about each other that pleases one other it is actually the horoscope that you are happy together

    other wise life will be like swimming against the tide and reaching places after so much difficulty that you are fed up with life. horoscope matches opposite chacters so that each chachecteer is influenced for the better our negative traits are handled better by our partners and viceversa, if a persons horescope does not give a romatic and trilling husband it means she will be better of with a sober type and it may last depending on both their sense of patience and timing.

    horoscope actually tries to help you already written fate which can be improved maybe 25% or more, just because the hororscope was matched does not mean you will be happy without any efforts or your bad timings will vanish we have to be patient and get along life with dedication and a willingness to lead a sucessful and somewhat happy life.
    more next tme
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  2. Dhalia

    Dhalia New IL'ite

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    I do believe in horoscope matching and mine and DH were supposed to be perfect match. But we did have problems and maybe, we were able to overcome that because we matched. You can use horoscope as a guide to make the right choices at right time. But then, you need to find a good astrologer to interpret the stars properly.
     
  3. priyasuresh11

    priyasuresh11 Senior IL'ite

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    Like our astrologers say Astrology is not a small subject but a vast one.It is also a mathematics.When matching the horoscopes people should not see only the 10 poruthams(matches).They can see the nature of the girl/boy and their characteristics to certain extent.

    But in India in every street there are minimum one astrologer.All are half cooked.So they will tell whatever they know.That's it.Sometimes by luck it will work and sometimes not....
     
  4. meVaidehi

    meVaidehi Platinum IL'ite

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    We didn't check the horoscopes before marriage. And we are happily married. Even my parents got married without horoscopes matching in their days though theirs was arranged marriage. My grandparents didn't insist. When my MIL aksed to get them checked, hubby told her we did and they match. Later got to know she still did and they really match.

    P.S. Rihana,
    Well said. I guess more than 75% marriages would be cancelled if the MIL-DIL horoscopes are checked.:rotfl

    Vaidehi
     
  5. blissful

    blissful Bronze IL'ite

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    Just FYI it is possible to know about Parents and Siblings from ones horoscope. I.e. you can know basics about your MIL, FIL, SIL, BIL from your DH's horoscope and it is possible to know the basics about your Mom, Dad, Brothers, Sisters from your horoscope.

    I think astrology and specifically horoscope matching is too commercialised today. Also what you may feel is important in a marriage may not be the same as what the astologer thinks is important in a marriage and hence he may check things from his prospective rather than yours. Let me give an example.

    A friend of mine found out that her husband is gay. She went back to the astologer who matched their horoscopes and asked about it. The astologer this time around gave it due consideration and told her that her DH's horoscope does show preference to the same sex. Why on earth didn't he check this to start off with? They match all sorts of things. But isn't this the first thing that they should be looking for? When my friend asked the astologer this, he told her that such things don't matter in making a good marriage! Accodring to the astologer my friends husband is a good natuered person and that should be enough to make her happy. So while he husband is actively seeing other guys, my friend is supposed to be happy because he treats her well.

    I have had a love marriage. My parents did not even ask for my DH's horoscope. My MIL however got our horoscopes looked into and she said they match.
     
  6. Maharani

    Maharani New IL'ite

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    Yes, I can say I do and don't believe in it.

    Ours matched 9/10 and we have loads of fights every week. We have already had 4 days of fight in matter of 6 days. Now I really feel like going and blasting that person who saw the horror scope:spinLOL........(3 of them)

    But on the other side 2 things matched. When I was in college the pundit saw my horoscope and said my hubby will be highly educated which he is (Phd) and i am happy for that and other thing was they all said we will not be in financial debt which we are not by God's grace. Even though we had HUGE potholes at the beginning everything seemed to be settled after 1.5 years of our marriage. Even though we dont have huge savings today after 4 years of marriage we are managing well.:thumbsup
     
  7. blessed

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    Mine was an arranged marriage and our horoscope perfectly matched, but we were two poles apart in thinking, talking and in almst everything. Finaly I had to make so many adjustments in life to match his way of living.

    So I dont belive in horoscope matching.
     
  8. kundali

    kundali New IL'ite

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    Curious to know about the future of your current relationship?! Can you trust today and bulid a tomorrow based on it? Find all the anwers in Online Kundli Matching by Future Point.
     
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    kundali New IL'ite

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    MadhuRK Silver IL'ite

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    It is possible that horoscopes are more science than art. But there are higher-powers, including our own mental strength, will-power, destiny, fate etc etc which have more potency and so we should not pay the hafta to a lowly staffer when we know the CEO on matters of such critical importance as marriage.

    My sister had a perfect arranged marriage with a 10/10 horoscope match. I did not like my brother-in-law from the word go, I thought he was a bad match to my sister's temperament. My parents did not give enough consideration to my protests and immediately after the marriage my sister realized this too. For 10 years they struggled to form some kind of a bond and had no children because of this terrible lack of compatibility. But 15 years later now, they have 2 kids a very happy marriage and everyone has come around to seeing the goodness of the boy, whatever that means. perhaps code word for "we are going to accept our fate ?".

    Or Perhaps its all supposed to play out in the long run ? and we are too small to be speculating on a perfect science practiced by imperfect souls ?
     
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