Fights Every Other Day

your Son's fAther. Looks very angry while writing the post.

Keep calm. some time live your self and Silent treatment is good option for both. dont provoke them . Leave them and they only will fight and come back to you.

 

If you are religious inclined, attend some shloka classes or Stotra’s sessions. If not take up music classes, they will calm your mind. A way to relax.

 

Your husband is a lot like mine. Mine helps with household work but not with sons problems. I have to deal with that day in and day out. He never supports me also. I think this is a disease in Indian men. They like to have kids and not take the responsibility of their offspring. Parents are God. Only their parents not the wife's parents.

 

Yeh not all Indian men are like this; a lot of this also depends on how you handle your H and in-laws from begining.
Although a lot of this depends on how Emotionally well connected you & your H are but also depends on how you navigate your situations with H.
I have done very poor job i guess and things are really bad.
But when i see my MIL & FIL they are like love birds as she knows how to navigate through every situation.. & how to art a story.. well its a huge art & she is PhD in all of these.
I would suggest that let go of what your in laws have done as they are not really that imp to you (only imp infront of your H). And also utilize your H's help in the things that he helps with. For ex - if he helps in house hold work, take his help in that dept. and for kids than hire a nanny or use DC.

 

Good you had vent it out..

If you both want to make relationship better, keep all aside and go for counseling..