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Cake In My Closet, Scared To Gift It

Discussion in 'Parents & Siblings' started by ChennaiExpress, Sep 10, 2018.

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    This is cute, the code made my day!
     
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    LOL ... that would be a weekend drive for me (which is a good thing!)
     
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    That place is a chocolate lovers delight!
     
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    Wow this place looks good :hearteyes:
     
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    I hear everyone telling Costco cake is good especially Tres Leches ! Got to try it soon :blush:
     
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    That's good. Now you know what to do in future
     
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    CE, after seeing your mother's response to the cake and painting, one thing is for sure , you don't need to take much trouble with her future birthdays, a simple happy birthday card would suffice.
     
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    "I know there is deep-seeded hurt. I'm just trying to be supportive and get along best I can. I know she will never change, but let me at least create peace of mind within myself."

    Even though @troubledmom's word seems to not have resonated well with you, I would like to add to it if you don't mind.

    You are anxious about giving your own mother a cake for her birthday to patch things up after a disagreement/issue/fight (whatever you call it). This anxiety is not "creating peace within yourself" - it is trying to fight a very difficult battle of winning the goodwill of your mother, yet again despite knowing her toxic behavior.

    Dear, please stop trying to patch things up with this person. You are and have done more than is needed for this lifetime (and another two lifetimes ahead - since you believe in next-lives).
     

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