Relationships Forum Chatter & Grey Matter

New thread soon at IL. Help! My husbands friend landed at my place saying its just for few days and now its been a month and he is showing no signs of leaving. Why burden another family?

 

I think she means a bachelor friend as a roommate.
That is my assumption of course.

If it is not,then hopefully the friend's family makes him feel the displeasure so that he will appreciate moving into a house with his own wife .

 

Madam I’m talking about when I was single. After marriage obviously things change ! And pls stop behaving as if we are feminists !! There is lot of difference between wat @pinky2cute is trying to explain and what I conveyed .

I’m far away from India . Hope you understand it!

 

So when u go back home now u wouldn't want to eat from ur moms hand? Rest ur head in her lap? I do u know.... and I have teenage kids. I am not ashamed of it all. That kind of affection is endearing and beautiful to watch regardless of gender,marital status or age.

 

Wat im trying to say is after marriage parents should not be over protective about kids. No matter wat the age is parents treat us as their children. But it shouldn’t be to such an extent where his/her partner is affected.
Again I’m telling not just guys but even gals parents too.
I already mentioned that one cannot stop restricting parents to visit their kids home even if it’s DH parents. Afterall they are his parents too. He also wants to take care of his parents and it’s his duty

 

Yes and if look carefully I did not quote ur post at all. I quoted a specific post of @Rihana where she calls a mother feeding her son disgusting. That comment was uncalled for and is an example of the kind of bias we have in this community and at large. A girl pampered by parents is met with aawwww cute and a boy with ewww. A girl being daddys princess is +ve thing while a mommas boy is -ve. For all the talk about equality we haven't come very far was the point I am trying to make. Think about it.

 

@justanothergirl I’m talking about this! Infact my DH also used to feel awkward when he used to get call from them. He wanted to spend some more time but due to the call he had to run back to home

 

Really! Rihana ji????

 

Sadly gals are pampered more thinking they will be moving away from them after marriage!
Guy wouldn’t face much uneasiness from his wife being pampered since guys wouldn’t stay days together at his inlaws place to feel uncomfortable .
Infact I would be happy if he sees my parents pampering me so that after seeing that he will pamper me more .
How long can a father pamper his daughter .

 

I replied due to this