I Am A Hypocrite

Hariji, A note to you & note to self too since we all can be hypocrites sometimes. We humans derive a lot of satisfaction by making admission & confessions & think our job is done at that stage since we could be honest to admit it. But after the first time, that honesty has no meaning unless we make an attempt to change ourselves too. Admission of guilt doesn't make it right unfortunately! Just some food for thought.

 

Chalo here’s my hypocrisy : I try not to be judgemental but totally judge men that think of women as objects with no brains , thoughts and ideas.

 

Hariji,
Your thoughts are very male-ficent! I must enlighten you that most women are happy to be mothers to both daughters and sons. It’s Naya Zamana but some of your thoughts are still purana . Walk with the times , treat us as human beings not objects Ji ! It’s high time !

 

I skimmed through this post in the morning but after seeing few responses here , I had to re-read this post in my free time . I am aghast that this is coming from someone whose few posts I have liked in the past . Such good writers but such low thinking ! After all is this what a mother , wife , sister, daughter and every woman out there is reduced to ? And here we continue to strive for women empowerment when even educated and well learned people think of women as so low . No wonder people like Harvey Weinstein and their likes continue to exist and proliferate in this world .



Good going ladies @Naari ,@Sandycandy .

 

We are not very spiritually evolved or disciplined. So honesty truthfulness sincerity doesn't come very easily to us. Either we practice these out of fear or habit since few values have stayed in our beliefs. You or I aren't alone in this. We hate rules of any form -right from queuing up either at bus stop or temples, payments or delivery counters, we are ever ready to jump lights at signals, if police isn't lurking around the corners. We own house, drive cars, eat out party hard yet hate to pay our taxes, we love imported stuff but won't pay duties and create a fuss, call up big daddy or whosoever. We are against dowry per se but will throw away wealth at our weddings, gift our daughters extravagantly and pretend it wasn't dowry. If we aren't taking responsibility for our omissions then admissions don't make sense. It's a failure of our value system or sanskar.

 

The biggest hypocrite is a person who says he/she is not a hypocrite. All of us rage against corruption but wouldn't mind greasing a few palms to get our work done faster.

 

I couldn't resist myself from writing in here.
I face the same problem of not being able to focus when in prayers my mind is always wandering away. I wonder if l have done any evil deeds and this is is the repercussions. I am always criticised by my husband for judging people even before I know them and not 'screening' a person before talking to them although l openly deny this there is some degree of truth in what he says.