34 Y Old. Can I Conceive?

Discussion in 'Fertility & Trying to Conceive' started by MahiSree, Jul 31, 2017.

  1. sheztheone

    sheztheone Platinum IL'ite

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    Being the mom of an 8 year old and around your age, I perfectly understand your feelings. However one thing from your posts that bothers me is you mention your DH has undergone a life saving surgery. Are you sure your family will be able to handle the demands of a another pregnancy and kid?

    Also what does your DH feel about having a second kid in this situation? Granted, there were times he felt lonely being a single child but I think you should not relate that to your situation.

    Are you and H strong enough, physically and mentally, to attempt another pregnancy? Do you have a support system like family or friends to help you? Is you DH on the same page with you as regards expanding the family now?
    Imo you should ask yourself these questions before deciding.
     
  2. Licki

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    Hi, my dear, I'm so sorry, you have such circumstances in your life. I guess you need to find a good personal doctor, who will lead and check your health during your pregnancy. I heard, Rupal hospital is good, have read lots of positive things about it. Actually it's better for you to search the best specialist , who can provide a significant support for you. Chances of pregnancy depend too much on specialist. I used to search for a doctor on web resorse ovu fertility network, there are fertility clinics only, and was very comfortable to search. My problems were connected with fertility, but I'm sure a really great specialist can change the situation in the best way
     
  3. MaruthiRao

    MaruthiRao Silver IL'ite

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    HI Mahishree,

    Stay positive, my friend conceived at 46, lot of women have successfully conceived at 40+, so consult a gynaec and prepare yourself for it..:)
     
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    Hi ,

    My son is 4.5 years old, now we are thinking of a second baby, i am very much worried whether my son will be attached to his sibling. is the age gap is too long, i had a c section earlier, now thinking of that too, whether i can manage .. lots of confusions and thinkings.
     
  5. EagerForInfo

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    Get ur thyroid levels checked.
     
  6. MahiSree

    MahiSree Gold IL'ite

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    Good catch EagerForInfo.
    That's the one am planning for. Thanks.
     
  7. MahiSree

    MahiSree Gold IL'ite

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    Thanks Licki for your kind reply.
    My first delivery happened in Bangalore. Unfortunately, one miscarriage and one preterm also happened there when I consulted the same doctor.
    And the latest one at Chennai, in one of the reputed hospitals here and the doctor was said to have impressive records and years of experience.
     
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    Thank you ma
     
  9. Bhaskaran

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    Let me analyse your case in homeopathy .Tell me more about the miscarriages , month , reasons etc , and also about you at present .

    regards.
     
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    Hello, Hope so you are doing great. I am very excited to read your post. Nothing is impossible. There will be many complications at this age. My relative was pregnant at 40. She was very excited. But upset because it was a complicated case. At last, she was blessed with a baby girl. She was so happy. I believe if you go to a good doctor. It will be a plus point for you. My best wishes are with you. I hope and pray all goes well for you. Take care of yourself . Go for a proper checkup. Sending you baby dust.
     

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