Difficulty Faced In Getting Married

same is here in west too even amongst desis here ...desi women hold upper hand...every man these days wants equal and strong independent women but are sometimes rejected by their equals... ...so women are playing the field these days !.

another thing i noticed is that 10 % of desis in west who married in 20s (as most marry in 30s) ----90 % of those are divorced by their early 30s n are back in the marriage market with sadly their value reduced in desi society as never married desi will hardly ever marry a divorcee desi....

 

the pressure from society has to change.
parents who dont get their daughters married are frowned upon,
all nthis has to change.
why marry an unsuitable groom and suffer .

 

BTW. where is UMANGA

 

"Living in "is a alternative to marriage in the west but I don't know if that will work in India because of parental involvement in most adults lives. Plus parents don't treat a legally married DIL well, can you imagine the state of a woman that lives in with their son ? How many Indian parents would be ok with their daughter living in ?

 

It's human nature to be never happy with what we have . First we run after something to acquire it, once we acquire something we start lamenting or looking for other alternatives. People who are single are itching to get married , married people want to be single , single people want to have affairs, people stuck in affairs want to be single , people on a break don't know what they want but still want something . Living in, marriage , relationships , being single everything is complicated . Ultimately we have to accept that Men are from Mars and women from Venus .

 

hahaha... this is sure to deteriorate into that old "own or lease" choice.
Some european countries have made the legal accommodation for such a thing. One may have a full deal (kids, joint assets, etc..) or just a basic scheme (no kids, separate assets, easy dissolution when one of them wants it).