Is it true there are crazy, nosy people in India who want to know your business

SunPa · May 3, 2017

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Getting worse in my humble opinion, day by day. It's a mad rush for money and status and nobody is quite sure how to behave. All want to learn English but get upset if you try and speak it to them. Horrible place, unfit for human habitation. People staring all the time trying to ascertain your status and what use you can be to them. Instead of asking "Are you married?" they now ask "Do you have a girlfriend?". Get very upset if you profess disinterest. Get very upset if you keep to yourself. Get upset if you don't flaunt your wealth and brag about your achievements and those of your children. I don't even know why this place exists. Nasty people. Unbreathable air. Doctors want to fleece you. Want to know where you are working and how much you are earning. Police are like dumb criminals in uniform. A culture based on force and coercion. Can't maintain roads. Can't drive. If you try to follow the law, you are finished. Nobody seems to understand rules, laws and regulations. Following them is a crime. I don't know who is forcing Indians to have rules and law. Should go back to their old ways, whatever they were. Joke nation with a rich past that nobody takes seriously. Being invaded for the last 1,000 years. Place should be put out of its misery.
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O boy, that is a lot of hatred and negativity.
Do you live in India ?

ashneys · May 3, 2017

Woah, some r filled with way too much of negativity.

People r people everywer regardless of d country. I don agree dat it's based on the location alone, I feel it's more abt d ppl. Weder it's asia, Europe, America, india, Africa or wherever, der r both good n evil in all dose places.

Mayb for a person who's entire family n clan living in Germany may feel d same way abt dat county like u do abt india. Bcoz all der nosey relatives r der.

Also for a person with American parents who has lived all der life in uk with der family N moves to the usa may feel dat usa is like a zoo dat has ppl who has no class n behave like animals.

I hav lived both in india n abroad, der r both good n bad ppl in all dose countries. I hav both amazing friends n a few I can't even stand in all dose places.

Every country n der ppl has der way of living which is different from d other country. How can u say one way of living is wrong jus bcoz u hav a different upbringing?

India has evolved a lot. Ppl r more matured n accepting now. N der r many ppl who migrates to a new city for a job or education everyday in india, depending on der choice of being social or alone, dey do live d way dey want. No neighbors pokes into others life or house without u allowing it. Jus like der r bad ppl everywer, india has it too. Y bring in such amount of hatred for it?

Vedhavalli · May 4, 2017

There are lots of people like that in India, USA all over the world.
The craze for money, fame... Comparisons...ruin mental peace.
But i find esp Asians do that more....

jmsd · May 27, 2017

From what is cooking in your kitchen to what are you earning..they wanna know it all.
Indians are nosy for sure.

Sweety82 · Jun 9, 2017

Yes ppl do interfere if we give space for them in this world.
Yes ppl do interfere even if we don't give space for them in India
Iam not criticizing india. India is my country. But my experience speaks. What to do?