Life Lessons To Defuse The Critical Situations

Hello Ladies,
It is universal truth that basics of life is "Getup - Survive - Go to Bed".
We get anxiety and stress only when we do not know how to survive that critical circumstances when conflict occurs.
Please write up your Life Lesson or Advice to defuse any critical situation. That might be encountered by you/ur friends/family members at family and work .

 

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One of my biggest life lesson is try to be calm in any hectic situation.
I learnt that when i blasted out at my ex-office due to their partial behaviour and became victim of their power politics. Though i joined in another company, it took a year to prove myself again. I could have stayed calm coz politics is everywhere even in new office. We need to tackle that without loosing our peace.

 

@coolgal123 Hello mam , am reading all your valuable matured answers. Could you please share any of your advice/ life lessons on this thread?

 

Thx @coolgal123 (Oh i will call u coolgal itself ) , @hermitcrab , @Craziyrmom .
Those are valuable
1.Taking decisions based on rationale instead of Ego,
2. To be with long term goal and not short term.(Especially align with Group and not sharing personal)
3. This too shall pass.
But these are getting difficult to APPLY in relationship goals. Is it not? I dono how to do that ..
Aligning with group seems difficult as they used to gang up against anyone or top level management or starts bullying the person from the same group. (Hate bullying)

 

Also plz share some tricks for InLaws (DIL and SIL) speak nicely in front of third person and slowly tells DIL not fulfilling their expectation and nicely ask the stranger to advice DIL to not do these kind of faults anymore.
Its seriously tough for me to handle coz i cant fight with 3rd person as well as Inlaws coz they are speaking nicely but creates friction between 3rd person and me.
(How Political!!!)

 

My In laws are passive aggressive. They play smartly not even my H knows it (Hope so). But these people always used to keep my H with them ( we stay away from them in same city) and i used to be alone at home often.
My SIL is already having Kid. Now she s pregnant again and stays with her mom, her H and Kid after her marriage. I feel very much irritated on this play and now if my SIL ask "I cant take care of my baby" , her mom ll use to babysit and says to my H "m not feeling well, come here". He goes.
Not sure what H thinks about our future. Always he keeps me in wall, could not go this side or that side until he frees me from that. I need to wait for him.
Not sure how to handle this Passive Aggressive in laws.