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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Rihana, Jun 22, 2016.

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  1. LotusAura

    LotusAura Gold IL'ite

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    I get you Ragini about rationing time online as it can get addictive. I seldom log in and even more rarely ever do posts giving my suggestions about personal problems of people as I feel we get a heavily one-sided account of issues to be fair. My posts or nature of response is usually on the lines of the more 'general/generic' variety.

    About the other thread... I feel the analogies cited of stealing etc are like comparing chalk and cheese. However then too, there are millions of poor people around the world who don't go around stealing food & stuff as a recourse to fix their poverty. Integrity, ethics and a strong inner moral compass is what sets people apart.
     
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    kcb IL Hall of Fame

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    Girls,

    Don't you think you are missing some interesting debate on IL, especially Mr. JKAgarwal's response?

    Dowry is good or Bad
     
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    :yum:He is either a troll or a deeply frustrated man.
     
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    When something is wrong it needs to be called out. No matter how many times . I fix what and when I can...and when I cant I grieve. Regardless of my limitations... I never validate what in my heart I know is not how I would have liked to be treated.
    OP could leave today she could have left yesterday. She was not in a physically abusive relationship. Her safety was never at risk.
    Bottom line she shopped around while being married. She is a survivor. Nothing unusual. Nothing uncommon. I have had my friends go through it. Good for her. Bad for her ex.
    Any one can write a justification of why they had an EMA. Anyone . Few have the ba***s to move on and then do the right thing.
     
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    Rihana is like a gardener who takes the seeds from one thread to start another one.:biggrin:
     
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    GoogleGlass IL Hall of Fame

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    lol

    in our place we know Agarwal for sweets,
    good savouries are also there,
    never realized slavery's also come :)
     
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    yellowmango IL Hall of Fame

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    @GoogleGlass ...try the hot coffee and cold ice cream......I mean literally.:p
    Have you tried ice cream with hot gulab jamuns or hot hot ...just out of the frying pan jalebis?.....yummmmm!:yum:
     
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    Lets hope the mangos taste better next time. Haha.
     
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    GoogleGlass IL Hall of Fame

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    never attempted to - shall try - remote chances :)

    it's the mindset only - used to that :)
     
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    Ice cream with hot gulab jamuns and hot jalebis are a must in winter weddings here in the north:yum: .
     
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