Right Choice

I dont know how many will agree with what I hve posted here because I am from the older generation, young at heart and can understand the youngsters feelings to some extent .When I thught of posting this thread just now read a memory shared by my son . I think many of you can understand hindi


Mai woh sach hoon jise tu bardaash karne ki koshish kar raha hai. Mai woh jhoot jisse tujhe mohabbat ho gayi hai. Mai woh khauf hoon jo tere dil mai bass gaya hai. Mai woh ummeed hoon jo ab bhi tere dil mai zinda hai. Mai woh andhera hoon jo din ki roshni mai bhi tere saath hai. Mai woh roshni hoon jiski tujhe talaash hai. Mai pyar bhi hoon nafrat bhi hoon. Mai sach bhi hoon mai jhoot bhi hoon. Mai kuch bhi nahi par mai sab kuch bhi hoon. Mai woh sach hoon jo tum sunna nahi chahte. Mai woh jhoot hoon jiski tumko aadat padh chuki hai. Mai woh bhool hoon jisko tum bhula nahi paoge. Mai hoon....

God decides the jodis. Thats why in some cases the match does not agree and go for another match. Now a days there are so many cases where after engagement the marriage is cancelled. IN some cases after marriage they dont agree and cant adjust and there is divorce. In some cases the parents start thelookout for marriage alliance when their daughters are 25 years but the daughters dont get their choice and in some cases they dont get married. One relative of mine was the same cases , now she is 44 yrs old not married but since she has not brothers she looks after her parents like a son and is in the top most post in a bank. She tells her mother when ever you pray for me I get promotion in my job but not in my life. She is happy as she is . Her sister is married and having a son and he is very much attached to her than his mother. So she is happy with her job and living in parent's house. But when parents get old and they are no more she might feel lonely. time only will say about that.

There are people in this present age live with their husband though they have misunderstandings but still adjust as they dont want to go back to their mother's place and make them unhappy.

Relationships are like stapler pins. Easy to attach, but very hard to detach. And even if th epin is removed , it always leaves its mark.

Satisfied life is better than successful life. Because success is measured by others but satisfaction is measured by our own hear.t

In my case also when young I used to think whether God has given me the right choice because we were different from each other. But as I grew older I felt God has given me the right choice and a gem of a person . I take only his positive and try to adjust , so I am satisfied in life . . He does lot of punya which will come with us .

Relationships cannot be made with mood and conditions
they have to be maintained by feelings
So never make life as a deal but live it with a great feel

 

First of all Ragini dear thank you for your first feedback and you brought a smile on my face with you rfeedback that this is a great thread which I never expected. I thought there will be negative feedbacks and to get your first feedback such a loving one made me very happy. Thank you dear for making my day with your first feedback and for taking time to give feedback in your busy schedule

 

Glad to know though you are younger than me you belong to the same school ofthought. YOu are right children shold be taught about adjustment , good manners in young age only.

 

Thank you dear for expressing your views

 

Rihana dear I was thinking how come you have not come here. Not a bad idea to use paperclips. Thanks for your feedback dear