How To Stay Positive In Ttc

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  1. msms

    msms Gold IL'ite

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    Hi Ladies,

    Logged in after a very long time here. First of all congratulations to moderators for making the forum fast and mobile friendly. It was indeed required.

    Coming back to TTC. I have seen many ladies here, who are now blessed with their LOs after long time of TTC. I don't know how to keep the mind positive after every new cycle:worried:. Every new cycle I get fear that its gonna be same again. After having two failed IUI, third one gives hope, but its very difficult to stay positive. What to do:(

    Waiting for a miracle from long time. Need lots and lots of blessings. Please do include me in your prayers.
     
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    Dear,
    I know it's very hard to stay positive when nothing is going according to ur plan, but we have no option but to hang in there !
    First of all stop comparing our life with others.
    I too had a long struggle of almost 3 years.
    Everybody is destined to have their LO it's just the matter of timing.
    Pray hard , God is watching over us , he knows the pain we r going through.
    Try to stay positive and keep trying till h achieve it ,
    And one fine day u will !
     
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    sumalynux IL Hall of Fame

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    Hi

    I conceived my son after
    miscarriage
    Laparoscopy
    Two times tube test
    iui
    Ivf

    And 2.5yrs of treatment...

    I am 30+ and lost hopes and was discussing adoption also with dh.. finally ivf and 2nd fet worked for me...

    I used to take lot of breaks in between treatment and go some trips...

    Just keep praying and try all treatment, it will happen very soon.

    All the best
     
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    waiting4rmlong Gold IL'ite

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    Hi Sumalynux,
    Inspiring words. Thanks for sharing.
     
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    msms Gold IL'ite

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    Thank you so much for your positive vibes. Hats off to you, I wish god gives the strength and courage to all of us here.

    When somebody shares their success story, it boosts the confidence to 100%, that yes, very soon we're gonna hold our LO too...thanks a lot!
     
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    Vasumathy Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    HI msms,
    It good to see you back.
    Your signature quote itself has the answer for you. HE is making you to Wait for the best thing. Stay positive and strong. Always think for the brighter side, forget all the hard memories. Keep your positive spirits high. All will go well. Keep your mind active in other things if your mind is keep coming to the hard journey!
    Baby dust to you.
     
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    Avanti30 Gold IL'ite

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    HI Vasumathy,
    YOur words are perfectly applicable to me too...

    I sailed through my first week easily...but in the last leg of tww journey I am really getting impatient. Feelings fluctuating from positive to negative and negative to positive both ways...
    But yes, trying to be patient, trying to be positive. Thanks IL for positive words, inspiration, cycle buddies; our forum is keeping me sane and hopeful in tww.
    Hoping for the best
     
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    Hi

    Its been a super long time since l posted here. I was sailing in a similar boat few years ago. IUI, Miscarriage, tcm for fertility. Name it and we have been through it. Miraculously l conceived in May 2014. Best times of my life although l was in denial. It did happen and now my son will be 15 months this Friday. Be positive and happy, you might be the next person posting your good news here!
     
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    @Avanti30

    It's natural dear, the anxiety is going to b there..
    But don't let it bog u down,

    Stay positive and only think about the good things..
    All the best !!
    Baby dust to u !!
     
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    Thanks @Vasumathy for inspiring words. Whenever I feel low, I just come here and get inspired. Thanks a lot.

    Thanks @glimmer, I am waiting to write my success story, I wish that day come soon now...I wish your words come true..
     
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