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Worry, thy name is woman!

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by Chitvish, Aug 31, 2009.

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  1. Sep 3, 2009 #41
    Ruhi

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    Dear Chitraji,
    I'm very happy to see your Blog after long time.
    Your thoughts always give me Energy.
    Count me in ,too :)..Trying to accept the facts.

    Take Care,
    Ruhi

    P.S- [New Display is Pic very nice.]
     
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  2. Sep 3, 2009 #42
    Chitvish

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    that you missed my blogs! After all, I am human!!
    The picture is golden lotus in our Madurai Meenakshi temple!:)
    Love,
    Chithra

     
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  3. Sep 4, 2009 #43
    dblakshmi

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    Dear Chitraji,
    u can also count me. I can call myself hamam ad "mom". ayyo ponnukku enna soapunnu sollaliye.. starting there to till her college life. my imaginary skills are so excellent but when it comes to worrying it is horrifying. earlier it was worst. now it is better. i am a complan women.
    love,
    Lakshmi
     
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  4. Sep 4, 2009 #44
    Chitvish

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    watch too much of TV!
    Your worries will 'subconsciously' reflect on your daughter's mental make up, remember!
    Allow her to bloom as an independant young woman!
    Love,
    Chithra.


     
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  5. Sep 4, 2009 #45
    Jpatma

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    Chithra,
    Definitely we tend to worry on matters like school results, house not cleaned up , cooking not finished etc etc. The worry is related to the sphere of our functions and we often voice it. Men goes into macro aspect of settling housing loan, car hire instalmnet etc etc.
    Of course nowadays women who controls the home's purse tend to worry on financial matters too.But there are some inherent characterstics of women in general and men too & worrying is one aspect.
    Worry is also related to concern, we get concerned abt everything as a result we worry.
    Only yogis who can seperate themselves from the body and mind will not worry, we can only reduce our worries.

    Chithra i love your new avatar.
    Jaya
     
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  6. Sep 4, 2009 #46
    Chitvish

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    Thanks for your last line!! That is the potramarai in our Madurai meenakshi Temple!:)
    You are right, Jaya our worries include both micro & macro (now a days) issues!
    Men tend to worry with more emphasis on macro issues!
    Thanks for dropping in, Jaya.
    Love,
    Chithra.


     
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  7. Sep 5, 2009 #47
    suma21

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    Chitra Mam,
    I am so blessed to know you thru IL....Loved your super duper suggestions....i am called "Tension Party" at my home....i always think & plan for future..hence there is no end to end my worries....i am trying to bring my mind to "present" to phew the worries but it never happens....Meditation helps sometimes...Acceptance is very tough....will try to implement ..Thanks for valuable advices....
    Hugs
    Suma
     
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  8. Sep 5, 2009 #48
    viveka

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    chitra:

    It is so true that women express their fears and their worries more than men. Also, people tend to worry more as they grow older - perhaps have more to worry about?...
    You know, while I was fearless growing up and remain so for all things concerning me personally. I became a worrier after the kids arrived. However, I am better now since my kids strike a wonderful balance, reasoning and allaying my fears when i fret about their sibling..
     
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  9. Sep 5, 2009 #49
    Sriniketan

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    The quote you had quoted here...highlights the results of worrying, Chithu.
    Just like you, I too love this quote.

    Sriniketan
     
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  10. Sep 5, 2009 #50
    Chitvish

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    Believe me, in my younger age, I was quite a 'tension party' - my mother will vouchsafe for it! But over the years, I realised hat I was getting depressed & depressing others around me. So, I literally struggled & started worrying less & less!!
    Love,
    Chithra.



     
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