scared of my ex boy friend

Hyral · Jan 20, 2016

nidhimom123 said: ↑

Dear friend,
I had a bf long time back and we got separated before 8 years and now i got married and i am having 2 kids.

He is not married till now.

After separation he told me that he will not get married and always think of me and will message me correctly on my birthdays and new year and still he is doing the same without fail.

He is thinking of me a lot. Once i called upon him and scolded him nicely to seek any girl and get married. But he told no. If i talk to him he will talk about the past and make me cry that way i get upset to face my husband. He used to cry to me in phone. Now also i am receiving birthday wish and new year greetings and scared of him a lot.

Today i had deleted my facebook id because of him and lost contact of all 200 friends. I want peace in my life. I came to know that he is not suitable person for me and we went for separation..He also felt the same. Now i am under severe depression..Having two kids and nice husband i am having thoughts that i should commit suicide very soon. I am not having anyother way. I am scared of him. If i talk to him he is crying. He is drinking and having all the habits. I am feeling really ashamed of myself now.

I am under depression.

I thought he will get married within 2 or 4 years. But not untill now....He is messaging me and seeing my husband profile in facebook.

Why in this world people will not have any love failure atleast once in their lives...? How to go about this? If i tell to my hubby his trust will be lost. I cant share with any others also.

Whether i can tell to stop message me...? or if i ignore he is repeating in the next year...Like that it had gone till 8 years.

I am avoiding going to my hometown bcz i am scared that i may meet him somewhere else.

I am dying from inside....KIndly help me friends...How to go about this.
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Hey any progress in your matter? could you talk to ur hubby or ur ex could get the right senses?
do post here...we are concerned for you.

curtainsdown · Jan 21, 2016

Go back on your FB and befriend your 199 other friends. Do not friend him. Set your privacy settings so that he cannot see you. Change your mobile num/email id. Do not care if he is married or not or wht he is doing with his life. Basically act like he never existed. And go to ur home town and enjoy life - even if you accidentally bump into him ignore him - if he talks to you, act like you have forgotten and pleasantly surprised to meet him after years now. DO NOT GIVE YOUR CONTACT INFO. And most importantly do not commit suicide - your kids need you more than anyone else and you owe them so much. Understand you are blessed and lead a happy life.

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