The older I get,themore I realize that thethings that costnothing,hold the most value

I dont know whether the tittle suits this thread. I feel we should get married at the right age then only the children will be born at the right time if we are lucky and by the time we are fifty or fifty five we can become grandparents. Then we will be able to enjoy with our grandchildren, make them happy by being with them , play with them, teach them good things and make their future bright

I got married only at the 30th year , my elder daughter was born only after 3 years, ie when I was 33 yrs and within 3 and half years 3 children were born. As I was a working woman it was difficult bringing them up but I gave them all the love I can, taught them, helped them in their studies , even I used to go late to office during their exams. But if I had got married at the age of 25 yrs I would have had more strength in bringing them up. Everything went off well but when my elder daughter was going to Xth std, the day the school opened I had hip bone fracture, because of which I did not have much energy. But with God's grace I became ok though I had to struggle a lot.

I was feeling sad that even my daughters could not conceive though they got married in time. But glad they adopted a daughter but by the time they adopted I was 65 years old, if I did not have had hip bone fracture I would have been more healthy. I somehow managed to look after my grand daughter till she was eight months old as she was waiting for her passport. I felt if I was a little more younger I would have managed very well . Till the children are 3 years old they make you run after them and we need energy to run which I felt I did not have being old and also because of the fracture.

My brother's wife got married before she was 20 yrs and at the age of 57 yrs she is grandmother of 4 grand children. She is expert in everything, cooking, embroidery, telling the stories to the children, having lot of patience to bring them up. She brought up her two daughters well and also the grandchildren and they are very much attached to her. But now recently she is having health problems but still she was managing and two months back she had fracture in her leg and still it is swollen and she is having frozen shoulder too because of this she is not able to walk properly and also shoulder pain is there. She was so active, cooking whatever the grandchildren like and now she feels helpless. Her grandson is completing 1 year in few days. She was saying I wont be able to do much work on that day during the ceremony. I told her it is dhrishti .

While we try to teach our children all about Life… Our Children teach us what Life is all about….. On this occasion.. give your precious one’s the priceless gift of Time…​

 

Re: The older I get,themore I realize that thethings that costnothing,hold the most v

Glad toknow @Phalguni dear its your view too, thanks for the first feedback

 

Re: The older I get,themore I realize that thethings that costnothing,hold the most v

I know @twinklingstar true that now a days want to be independent and work equally like boys. Now a days women want the best education, a hi fi job and many dont want to get married also , one of my relative's daughter who is a CA has come to the top in her carrier but not married . She is 43 years old and now she does not want to get married . It all depends on each one's like

 

Re: The older I get,themore I realize that thethings that costnothing,hold the most v

I know many women of present age wont agree, I only wrote my wish

 

Re: The older I get,themore I realize that thethings that costnothing,hold the most v

Welcome to my thread and true dear each one have their own views. Thanks for sharing your views dear