Cosis says she is lucky to have this PIL's. But I hate them

regjusttoreply · Oct 6, 2015

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Sorry op
I dont agree that you are not bothered by you cosis and mil, if you were not bothered you won't have startrd this thread. It is one thing to have a self respect but you wasted so many of years of your life trying to prove yourself and now also you life is kind of based on trying to prove yourself. Let it go my dear, all that hatred,won't help you live peacefully. Dont be so much absorbed in hating someone that the hatred absorbs you.
If cosis likes your pil , good for her.dont bother.each person has different nature .
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Common yaar! Did you read my post and reply? I had clearly written I am not bothered about MIL or cosis. I started the thread to say I am bothered their cheap politics hampered my married life in turn wasted my fertile years. I did not start the thread to whine about their relationship. If they are close, if they are not close my stand will be the same, give respect take respect.

Yes if cosis likes PIL good for her. I am not bothered because I would never ever allow PILs mistreat me like her, to be close with them. So I am very much happy about my choice.

And I am trying to prove myself what???

cutemonster · Oct 6, 2015

It took many years for me to prove myself, what I am capable of and how I could be a pillar for him
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regjusttoreply said: ↑

Common yaar! Did you read my post and reply? I had clearly written I am not bothered about MIL or cosis. I started the thread to say I am bothered their cheap politics hampered my married life in turn wasted my fertile year.
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you have mentioned yourself only that you wasted enough years to prove to your husband , dont you think you have wasted enough of your time and emotions girl.my post was in no way to hurt you. I know you are anguished but can you do anything about it?
I havr read your posts , could it be that co sis is genuinely getting along , or even if she is doing this all for financial and emotional reason , it could be just the way she is.not everyone is ready to waste years to prove themselves. You did what you thought was right. For you your pride and self respect was more important for someone else self respect could not be more important.

regjusttoreply · Oct 6, 2015

cutemonster said: ↑

And I am trying to prove myself what???
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you have mentioned yourself only that you wasted enough years to prove to your husband , dont you think you have wasted enough of your time and emotions girl.my post was in no way to hurt you. I know you are anguished but can you do anything about it?
I havr read your posts , could it be that co sis is genuinely getting along , or even if she is doing this all for financial and emotional reason , it could be just the way she is.[/QUOTE]

sorry I misunderstood the statement was regarding MIL and cosis. Yes I tried and proved to my H. Yes co sis could be genuine, or for financial and emotional reason , or it could be just the way she is. That's why I am least bothered about them. Infact even before marriage I know I won't lovey dovey relation with MIL or cosis because I didn't need it.