Time to Resilience !!

Dear Kato,

Well said, i agree . i try and follow this, by keeping away negatiove people and thoughts, and try and be positive, and bring a smile on everyones face.Am i doing Right ?

Regards

kamal

 

It is during these tough times, that we need to stay positive. And you how to stay positive amidst all negative people??

Just do your duty and never alter/change your ways just because other people are behaving bad. Keep continuing what you do and this pattern will definitely affect the negative people.

if negativity in people and situation can change or affect us ..can’t our positivity change people or situation??

Like they will either stop behaving bad or show some improvement. Show people that no matter what you are going to continue doing your duty. You don't have to do many things to show that you are positive, just continuing to do your duty without being affected is itself a positive attitude.

This is exactly what Lord Krishna said in Bhagavad Gita, Do your duty and do not think about the consequences. This is actually something very simple and yet we fail to do this.

 

Dear Katochsimi,
Such a thought provoking post. really was feeling so low today but this has turned me on. spread the positivity and it returns back to you doubled.
Life at home is beyond my means. all sorts of issues in hubby, inlaws relationship. strayed away far from parents. mother not feeling well but cannot even visit her. parents longing to see their grandkids but cannot even goto visit them.
im tired of it all and not sure which way my life is heading to but your post brought me back to reality.
thank you Katochsimi dear. i will not long for anyones approval but do the things which are right.no more negativity and noone holding me back.

 

"if it happens as per our wish it is [COLOR=#009900 !important]GOOD[/COLOR], but if it does not happen as per our wish then it is "BEST" because it happened as per GOD's wish"...

So true.....

 

Dear Katochsimi,

Your young daughter's innocent remark has brought out a very impressive change in you I see.

Changes do happen with the advent of time no doubt.But for a change of personality to happen will need a lot more impact on life. We cannot control others nor can we control some situations. We curely can control ourselves, from within. But unfortunately, for that to happen, we will first experience an emotional upheaval and only when we think that we have fallen into a black hole, do we start seeing the light of hope.. Hope and the wish to get out of negativity is what brings on the positive attitude.

"negativity in people and situation can change or affect us ..can’t our positivity change people or situation?? Wow what a thought!! " Loved that! I see you had your 'eureka' moment with that thought! That is the way to go. I should know, I have tried it and it works!

Congratulations on being nominated to FP by Jayasala and RohsiK!

L, Kamla

 

agree .