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Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by harinimadan, Jun 19, 2015.

  1. guesshoo

    guesshoo IL Hall of Fame

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    This "trend" ought to be made a law! It is only fair that the men work towards cutting off the apron strings (or is it the umbilical cord?!?!), so that they can work on getting to know the person they marry and start their life together on an even keel. And the parents on both sides need to to allowed into their lives only based on the respect they give the couple. Fair all around.
     
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  2. sweetsmiley

    sweetsmiley Platinum IL'ite

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    Yes, This is really cool trend. :cool2:Newly wedded couple can enjoy the lives and make their own home. once the parents are really old (after 15 - 20 years), they can stay with them.

    It saves lot of marriage and less mental torture for DILs. :goodidea:
     
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  3. Radhai

    Radhai Platinum IL'ite

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    Trend is cool or not but thread is definitely cool. :2thumbsup:
     
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    sokanasanah IL Hall of Fame

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    Based on what I learn from IL, in expert hands interference via Skype can be extremely effective.:wink:
     
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    Ragini25 Platinum IL'ite

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  6. lakshmikguru

    lakshmikguru Gold IL'ite

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    i agree with this trend.Becoz,problems come by ILS mostly MIL.so,better to be a single family.At the same time,DH has taken responsiblities by caring and fulfilling their needs..
     
  7. Dipik

    Dipik New IL'ite

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    Guys,

    Feminism is not about women acting like men,It's women acting like women and being sucessful..

    Marriages should be on commitment. One step you give and the other comes with pleasure. If a girl can give two steps and start treating husband parents as hers i really believe your husband too will treat your parents the same(yeah , it might not be shown by going to your home and living with them) . But when needed he stands like a son definitely.
     
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  8. yellowmango

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    This is not about feminism.This is about some thing very basic like having the right to live like adults . Taking care of parents does not require to be living with them.It can be done living next door,in the next city or living seven seas away.

    Why can't the same be done for his parents?Not be there living with them but stand like son/dil in need.All parents are homo sapiens with similar needs.

    Since when is 'living in joint family' a definition of womanhood.
     
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    sweetsmiley Platinum IL'ite

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    yeah, we are also saying the same. No need to stay with them and stand only for need like a daughter :biggrin2:.
     
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    Then y Women has to show it by going to men's home and living with them....she can also be a daughter to her inlaws when needed without living with them....

    Yes feminism is not acting like a men....for me feminism is female shuld get fair treatment....
     
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