life without a child

His hesitation for accepting surrogacy is okay. But why doesn't he agree for adoption of a kid of unknown origin ?

 

Dear Meera,
Lot of IL Ladies have given their good wishes and suggestions to you.
I only want to add the following suggestion...

Please remember the infertility is always a couple's problem. The heart and soul of both partners must be involved in any decision taken, be it, infertility treatments, surrogacy or adoption.

Also whatever we do or dont do, ultimately whatever God will decide for us will happen.

After 20 years, the child you have (whether biological/through surrogacy/adopted) will be involved in their own world (studies, job,etc.) . Only your husband will stand by you forever.

Also many ILites are writing about people conceiving in 9th or 10th IVF attempt. Please think whether you, as a couple, can handle the physical and emotional effects of attempts.
Every couple facing infertility is unique, the rules applicable to one couple cannot be applied to other.

Please think of all this and take a good decision.

 

Legally adopt a distant relative's child as your own. The relative must be almost similar to your own social strata as much and as near as possible. That's the best thing.

 

Dear frirst of all I like to say that don't be stress, remember stress and frustration not the solution for the problem. Pray to God and consult another doc. If doc suggests that you can't conceive then you can try other ways.
you can also adopt child .. u know there are lots of children without parents may be nature has decided to give to a big duty