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Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by Meghaa, Dec 30, 2014.

  1. sheztheone

    sheztheone Platinum IL'ite

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    MIL's equation with DIL may not be the same for all DILs. Perhaps your cosis and MIL do not feel the same comfort level as you feel with your MIL. From your post that is what I feel.
    Or perhaps your MIL has not been very nice to her at some point.

    As amusing as this may be for you, never make the mistake of mentioning this to your BIL or cosis.
     
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    oysterzzz Gold IL'ite

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    where is the "funny things about MIL" thread? I always remember that palak joke whenever my BP gets high.
     
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    Meghaa Silver IL'ite

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    Oh wow! people here just refuse to believe that ANY DIL can be unreasonable and are SURE that MIL MUST have done something.

    I could say so many things to prove otherwise, but I will stop.
     
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    vqueen Senior IL'ite

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    :iagree not your problem !!
     
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    vqueen Senior IL'ite

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    :idontgetit: How can she say that to you !!

    what about your husband ?? is he ok with that !!
    sorry!! newly married and never been with MIL (just for 3 days after marriage)... kinda confused!
     
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    sheztheone Platinum IL'ite

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    OP, it does not have to do with whether MIL is in the wrong or DIL is in the wrong. It just means there's more to it than meets your eye. There are many instances when a third person may feel, Oh this MIL is being so nice and the DIL is very lucky. But only the persons concerned know the real situation
    Or it could be that some peoples' personalities just gel better.

    When I got married my cosis told me that our MIL is very cool and just like a mom. After getting married I realized that she was only speaking for herself. I have done a lot for PILs but still I have faced a lot of issues and favoritism. I also think cosis personality and attitude is more similar to MILs than mine.

    All of us reply based on our experience and thoughts.
    In my case if my cosis were to opine that despite having such a "good" MIL I crib or do not do this and that, I don't think it would be nice and it's not her problem/business.
     
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