Married Life & Being Single

Just want to share....

Marriage life calls for a lot of patience, trust, endurance, commitment, perseverance and on top of that, love. You can have someone to hold, cuddle, tell you how much you're loved and a shoulder to cry on when you need it.

Being single is not a sin and not everyone has to get married. But if you have found someone whom you really love and wish to spend the rest of your life with, then by all means get married. However, you must make sure that you are willing to do all of the above-mentioned because marriage is a sacred thing, it is suppose to last a life time. Do not be fashioned with the people of the world and give the slightest reason for divorce just because your spouse cannot fulfill your wishes. When he/she really cannot live up to your expectation, just recall why you chose to marry him/her in the first place. Automatically you would learn to endure and overlook his/her faults as all of us are imperfect people and we all tend to make mistakes. Forgive and forget is another factor for surviving a marriage too.

So all the very best to married guyz and best of luck to unmarried guyz.

 

Hey Raj,

1. Being Oneself: Both need to understand and follow your point#3.
2. Sharing Common Goal: Sharing is OK but common goal is not possible in all cases unless the couple belongs to same profession or same interests.
3. Let go your interest for the ones you love: This is the best thing and there is a thin line of trust which should never be crossed by both.

"you change one and other two needs to change as well".......I dont think we can change any one, we can correct few things, but we cannot change completely. We are not machines which works as per our needs or on instructions. Every human behavior is based on his/her grooming so if there is anything wrong we need to understand and correct ourself.

Most important thing to lead a successful married life is, couple should kick the word EGO out of their life.

It is my strong belief that every problem in any family or married life starts with EGO and drives you to the worst situation.