Men seeking earning wives are shame for those men who need wives only not money.

Let me first clarify, what I am saying, is without any reference to anyone's particular case . It is a subjective matter and in no case , it be considered application in any specific case.

Saying that, I feel, a self respecting working wife , cannot write anything else. than what you have written. What exactly did you mean by saying "Gone is the world where all that mattered was WHAT MAN WANTS....now its what the COUPLE Wants...
You are talking about action , and I am have spoken about a thinking of an individual. In this case, I am referring to a man's thinking. When he enjoys a recurring dowry in the form of wife's income, he is not supposed to show any ego logically.

Whether a wife would work or not is her freedom , after taking into consideration all pros and cons.

Men who thinks men allowing wives to work are greedy needs to grow up ....coz every where there is a black sheep among white sheeps...so not all men expects working wife for need of money...
I think, such a line was not pertinent. In my thread already spoke about those men who don't eye their spouses' income. I also cannot understand, who according to you is a black-sheep and who are white sheep.

and my DH does help me a lot with house hold chores and now a days many men helps their wives in household chores so hats off to all those men and women who works hand in hand rather than leading eachother.

That's so nice of him to do and so nice of you to admit. But, take it from millions, millions millions of husbands do that to their non-working wives simply out of their sense of responsibilities.

 

Kindly answer my question that I have posted. I spoke about greedy men. You spoke about desire of women. Surely a woman will work. But a manful man will never seek wife's monetary contribution for maintining the family. If he wants working wife, he is seeking dowry. RECURRING DOWRY ON PERIODICALLY. Thanks.

 

In a sense I laud the husband's ego, but not the act of converting her into a doormat. In my opinion, wife's income is a recurring dowry. A man who knocks back dowry, should be congratulated. But, that does not mean, she will have to lose all her normal freedom and dignity. Manly ego should not be an alternate way of forcing suservience. Thanks.

 

If you hate dowry seeking men, there is no logic why seeking "working wives" should be treated differently. Many fathers of brides very willingly offer and give dowries to the Groom's family. Many women also like to work and contribute to husband's coffer. The family is known for the husband, but wife is working outside to maintain it. A big inconsistency.

 

Really a good one.

 

And even if it is a necessity, which world are we living that if a man would like his wife to help him or if a wife would like to contribute to her family's financial well-being, it is considered such a bad thing?

It is the world , where dowry is denounced. Mind you, the dowry also goes to the welfare account of the newly wed family, provided the things are not snatched in the in-laws family.