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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by rathi321, Sep 23, 2014.

  1. rathi321

    rathi321 New IL'ite

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    hey der,can u all pls help me resolving this issue,.... we are 3 cousins,going for one bday party,on the way , suddenly my much elder cousin raises a topic on me ...we start an argument ... she passes quiet rude remarks on me....my other cousin is quiet throughout the whole scenerio...
    i was upset, stopped talking wid both ,here comes the twist after 45 days of silence my other cousin who was quiet tells me that my elder cousin was joking that day & i completely mistook her silence.. how the hell on earth that argument became a joke...very confused pls help me understand
     
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  2. sarvatha

    sarvatha Junior IL'ite

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    i suggest you take it as a joke too :) . there is no point in keeping the grudge and going forward. you people need each other in the future too.
     
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    rohinipriya21 Silver IL'ite

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    Ignore Ignore Ignore is only word to rule the people.


    Else if you have the hormones to protect yourself ( flight or fight).
    Next time wiat for a chance , ur turn probably throw all your vent over




    Rohini.
     
  4. Grihani

    Grihani Gold IL'ite

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    After all cousins, a word here and there can upset but have to let go. Call up and say that you were really upset but its not a big deal and you should not stop talking, and become normal again with both. You have conveyed yet letting go of it...
     

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