Lazy DH..

In what way physical exercises are specifically related to a man's fertility, I don't know. Of course doing regular physical exercises are good for the overall health of any individual.

You have safely chosen not to mention whether normal physical intimacy required for pregnancy takes place or not. (Sometimes due to high stress, this may become not possible).

What specific disease they have diagnosed in him, which makes him infertile and what is that medication they have prescribed him for one month ? If you can furnish some details, then, you may get helpful information from members here.

That is really scary !mg:

You forced him to do physical exercises by threating suicide ? And he succumbed to that threat ?! :hide: Poor fellow !

 

Dear Personal taste, I can understand your cause. I know this is hard but try not to panic. Coaxing you husband won't help, rather would make him an escapist. Keep your cool and keep trying but do not let desperation get you.
Make the environment light and make him understand the importance of getting his tests done without much ado about your tests being ok. The main thing to understand is that the biological clock of women below 30 is the safe period to conceive which is ticking away. If it is possible naturally, fine otherwise the other scientific techniques can be a rescue but everything will take its own time in bearing result, so now when 3 years have passed, the issue requires serious attention. Take him in confidence and make him comfortable that if any of you are having problem, you can both work it out and would mutually welcome the process for starting a family.
Exercising is good for overall health but the more important point here is to conceive so rather than nagging or forcing your husband for workouts, let a merry mood prevail and both work out towards your goal. All the best!

 

Possible !

 

hi ..if you cant get him to excersice... what you can do is modify his diet... create a diet with less carbohydrates and sugars, more protein & fibres etc.

my DH is as lazy as i am... we both are lazy for excersice but soon we realised tht we were being unhealthy... but cause of laziness we wouldnt excersice... so we made a diet change and reduced our excess weigths and back to being happily lazy hugsmiley

Also a suggestion the more u nag and force him to do... the more he will lose interest..... and scarying him with a blade on ur vein, its foolishnes-- u are inviting more trouble...---BIG NO

 

Dear OP,
Low levels of testosterone causes unusual tiredness and lack of energy in younger men.you can check testosterone levels of your husband to rule out that as a cause

 

weight gain and obesity itself can cause low testosterone among many reasons which might cause infertility , usual suggestion is to get him loose weight which your physician might have adviced and than recheck his blood levels for testosterone
but tiredness and low grade fever has multiple reason , i guess he need to check on those, simple tests can determine if he has any medical conditions which require attention
FYI few common conditions like anemia , thyroid problems , Obstructive sleep apnea ( if snoring , due to this condition he will wake up tired and tired all day and also doesn't feel like had a good night sleep , he might be snoring in the night)
better check with your physicians for some of this conditions
Well exercise will definitely help

 

Dear Personaltaste, its really sad to see your efforts to get your husband to exercise go in vain. But threatening with a blade was a very bad option. I think it will be a good idea to go to gym together. Even if he isn't interested in the beginning, ask him to just sit there while you exercise. Eventually, he will feel to join you. Don't ever force him or tell him to workout. I feel husbands usually think they are being ordered around when we keep telling them things to do. That makes them to go farther away from it.

How do you spend your weekends? Try engaging in interesting sports like cycling or swimming. Go for a picnic to the park n play a game of badminton. Or go to the beach n have a running race with your husband ( For fun) n let him win sumtyms. Instead of forcing him for a strict exercise routine, try out some fun events to do together. Plan a trip to a water park.

Appreciate your husband when he wears something new. He will feel nice n may think of improving his physique. Try to do something romantic n special for him at least twice every week. he wil feel loved and wanted. and whenever he is in a good mood to talk, tel him your feelings about having a baby. Ask him about his feelings. Discuss things through. Ask him what needs to be done to achieve that. Tell him that u love him every single day.

Best wishes.