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  1. FE40

    FE40 Silver IL'ite

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    He is nice to me. But really dont know his story in his city. Whatever he says, i am just trusting. Am i being just used up?
     
  2. Marun

    Marun Platinum IL'ite

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    Don't worry then. Be happy. Don't make this big mate.
     
  3. Sonali222

    Sonali222 Gold IL'ite

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    ok may be if he cannot forget her he may talk to u always about her na if he is not talking about her with u he is not thinking of her
     
  4. FE40

    FE40 Silver IL'ite

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    Really dont know .... but am already broken .... i had insecured feeling many times, he used to tell me a word 'trust' ... but this password thing is beyond my mind to trust its nothing .... Feeling as though he is not sure of himself, and anytime he will be back to her comfortably as he did earlier.
     
  5. Sonali222

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    dont worry if u realy think like that you hadnot loved him by your heart if u love anyone tthink always in a positive way
     
  6. shilpa28

    shilpa28 New IL'ite

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    Ask the same to your husband, may be you can get better answer..JMO
     
  7. Priya16

    Priya16 IL Hall of Fame

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    let me tell you the truth.

    Once the person is married and have kid, those people will be part of his life not matter what. Actually in this universe no one Owens others.

    Everyone is small part of others life. Since you came so long, I would suggest you accept it and live rest of your life with dignity. The day he doesn't treat you well then you need to think of it but not about his password.

    You always define your life and set your priorities. Don't live rest of your life for sake of him. He is just part of your life and not everything. So accept whatever baggage he had and don't involve with it.
     
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  8. Priya16

    Priya16 IL Hall of Fame

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    if u want to verify please do verify it and get into bottom. But don't loose your peace over it and it's not worth.

    Living with a person without trust is not a good sign.
     
  9. FE40

    FE40 Silver IL'ite

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    Yes i know Priya16. But verifying is not good i thought, in case he comes to know he will really feel bad. Already i have fought many times with trust issues, sometimes we went to the verge of breaking too .... but somehow we get along.

    If he does something, i just ask, will you accept if i do the same, then he goes to the silent mode. So most of the time, i leave it. But this password issue is bothering me too much.

    Should i not even ask him?
     
  10. amunique

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    priya.. i like the way you addressed this. your words are strong. Thanks
     

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