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10 Good PRO'S of leaving EX Husband !

Discussion in 'Life Without Spouse' started by Maddy2087, Jan 10, 2014.

  1. Maddy2087

    Maddy2087 Platinum IL'ite

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    Kiraan dear,

    I am very happy that you have found the right guy in life. You don't know how happy i feel for you.:):):) Yes, i have read your previous thread and i am soo proud of you. I salute you lady for showing that courage and patients to win against all the odds. Your post will inspire so many suffers who feel that they have lost their life and there is no happiness left to enjoy this life to the fullest.

    With Love,
    Maddy
     
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    attentivegirl Silver IL'ite

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    I am glad you found your freedom!:party

    Yay!!! ...May god give strength to all the victim ladies out there to be blessed like you!

    :banana:bananaEnjoy your liberation lady :banana:banana
     
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    Maddy2087 Platinum IL'ite

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    Thank you dear :) :) :)
     
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    Me too :) Me too
     
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    Maddy2087 Platinum IL'ite

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    That's so sweet of you dear :) . Thanks a lot !
     
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    thats the spirit lady. all the best for future. i am sure u will happy for rest of ur life with this spirit.
    keep smiling :)
     
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    Thank you soo much your comment really made me happy :) . thanks !
     
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    Few points from my side:
    1) I dont have to wear a smile in front of ex-inlaws and outsiders when I am crying inside.
    2) I dont have to feel suffocated and watch my actions, if I do this they might think that, if I say this they might interpret that. Its so liberating to be myself:)
    3) I dont have to think before talking and expressing myself in front of people who thruly love me=my family, thinking "Since I am married I have to behave in a certain way, speak in this manner, feel in that manner" and even a small mistake would make them point all fingers on me indicating how incapable wife and bahu I was!!
    4) Not spend 2 hrs on skype everyday with inlaws or making sure they were being called twice every day....just to give my husband the satisfaction-"his parents are being called more than my own parents = their higher level in our lives"
    4) Funny addition, when I am shopping in India for my myself I am not obligated to buy stuff for my SIl and MIL every single time or think hard before buying something expensive, thinking my husband would otherwise feel bad or sasuma/ sasurji would not forget asking the price and giving their comments
     
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    Maddy u r awesomeeeee...
    u r soooo inspiring ..kneesmiley
     
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    Thank you dear for expressing your views. I know and realize how liberating these little things are in life. One more thing i can add to my list after reading the shopping view . I don't have to be with my SIL who always copied every single dressing sense and move of mine and demanded the same sort of garments to be shopped for her . :drowning .

    And and and ...... one more

    I don't have to sit for long hours describing her recipes for every dish that i made with exact quantities involved , it really irritated me then but i kept quiet because of my H.
     

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