money issues

headspin · Dec 1, 2013

justanothergirl said: ↑

Is this a family owned business and he gets paid a salary?
Who decides the raises? Are there more people involved or is it just ur PIL?
What happens to the profits..does ur DH have a share in it?
(Assuming u are making some)
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dh is the director.. fil is md. hike is only decided by fil. im made to believe there are no profits..

headspin · Dec 1, 2013

mani75 said: ↑

Hello Headspin,

I have read your earlier posts aswell. It not really the money but as others have pointed out .... The feeling of not having a safety net to catch you if you fall.

One of the things that you have said here his parents control everything. is what is really the tipping point.

Please stop loaning him the money when he says he has none... let him go without it. Put aside that money and use it for your rent/down payment for appliances etc. If he asks tell him you are using it as his share towards the household.

Please workout your monthly budget after taking away all that you need to save/ fixed expenses.
mani75
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exactly my sentiments.. no safety net if i fall.. and parents in control.

loaning him has reduced big time.. but still as a wife i get carried away. i love him and understand.. but i feel the roles should be reversed.. i worry n he provides

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