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Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by coolpinky, Mar 6, 2013.

  1. Twinkel

    Twinkel Platinum IL'ite

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    mil is not actually culprit here. my dh is. poor she, she actually supported me all the while and she even consoled me saying these things do happen and these are tiny things in life. but she is not much used to metro city lifestyle and not comfortable here. she felt jailed and she wanted to run away. not her mistake, she is used to lifestyle where she need people all around and home should more be like a public place where people flow in whole day, whereas mine is complete opposite and so, I dont want to point out at her :( agreed, she should leave immediately, but each person is different...
     
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    Hi Twinkel ,
    It would be very lonely in a 4 BHK .. But very soon you can use it nicely.. making it kids bed room , kids study room , your hobby room etc etc ...
    Also why dont you keep a full time cook or maid if you feel lonely in a 4 bhk
     
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    Hi Twinkel

    Close relatives can understand outbursts/pain. If you have any close relatives nearby do go to their place. If not maybe a close friend or neighbor who can come to your place to give you company for most part of the day.
     
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    Hugs to you Twinkle. Take care of yourself. Your health is most important at the moment. Our wishes are with you.
     
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    Thank you for remembering me :)
     
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    yeah, I planned and even imagined how I would design each bedroom :-D I have a maid actually who comes and does house hold work and leaves, and a cook is appointed after I got preggy and doc suggested bedrest. I think full time maid and cook are not needed since it's just me... and 2 maids for one person arent actually needed... am planning to stop the cook, since cooking is like a therapy for me and want to cook for myself :)
     
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    Relatives are often visiting and my cousins regularly visit since am alone now :) yeah, am feeling down, but trying to pull up and straighten things. started gardening in all my balconies and warandahs.. reading books on PCOS and some romantic novels ;-) ...
    last and the least, even started following some serials on start plus and Life Ok View attachment 198315
     
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    View attachment 198316 include me in your prayers :)
     
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    twinkel, A big hug to u dearconsole1... Take care of ur health

    Dont stay alone. Get help from neighbors if needed....
     
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    thank you :)
     

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