3 years of hell come to an end now :) :(

Good you are coming out of the bad relationship Dont worry God will give you strength and courage !

Loads of Luv,

 

Best wishes Rajapriya...Be Happy

 

First of all kudos to you for taking the right step of going to policestation and complain against your husband.
I've read through your previous posts and understood your issues and it clearly shows you are a brave lady, but only concerned with the lives of your daughters and getting confused of proceeding with divorce or not. I can clearly understand your situation.

Now as others say, your husband might not have changed a bit, but may be afraid of the case against him and the repurcussions of divorce under domestic violence and trying to act as if he wants to get you/kids back. Lets give the benefit of doubt to him that he really wants you/kids back. Since you also dont want to have your daughters to be a single parented like you, just for the sake of them, I suggest you to give him a chance one last time with list of conditions say:
1) you/he stay in a separate house along with your mom (or your mom stay in the next street/nearby house)
2)House expenses has to borne by him
3)He can go visit his mother/brother once a month, that too with you/kids only, no separate meeting
4)Need to take care of the kids/their upbringing
5) No more physical/verbal abuse of any kind
Add any other conditions as you know his behaviour patterns very well.

If at all you decide tohave him with you and in case you've not done family planning, pls do that before you join him again, as some sadists force unplanned pregnancy just to make more troubles/weaken the ladies/make them their slaves. in your case, he might plan for you to lose your job and thus become dependent on him So if you choose to have him, always look at him with a suspicious eyes for few years/be strong always, never ever show lineancy on the agreed upon rules.

Now, if you choose to leave him, as others are saying, you are not doing anything wrong, rather you are giving your daughters a better environment to grow up in case your husbnad is not a person who will change.

All the very best and be bold and God will be always there for you. Just believe in whatever happens happens for the best.

 

Extremely sorry for what had happened. Tight hugs to you. I don't have any thing to say..but you are in my prayers.

love,
sweety

 

hi Rajapriya, salute to your braveness that you stood through such a tough time!...may be its GODs wish to move you on to next level. Be courageous and move on!...One day your daughters too will understand that the kind of situation you`ve gone through and done a very right thing..I know it it easy to advice by very tough to go through it and experience it......be brave and move on!....Cheers!

 

Don't get weak at nay point during this journey. Your husband will surely find all your weak points and use them to get you back to him.

Now that you have taken a step ahead in life, why do you want to go back again two steps?

Be string, your family is with you and you are in the prayers of the IL family. Rest assured and look forward to a better life with your children.

 

Hi dear,

Hats off to you. With two little daughters, you still stepped out of an abusive marriage. it really requires courage. :bowdown
You are a good example for those women who endure abuse in marriages just because a kid is involved.
You are in my prayers dear...