Husband watching adult movies and chatting with girls

This guy has interest in you as a wife?

 

hello,

Please do not consider my reply as rude. How good is your sex life. how much of personal time you spend on your dh. it is so easy to put comments, and every women joins in blaming him. but the fact is yes men need lot of sex, visually and physically. you are his wife, you know better than anyone how much romantic time u both have.

best suggestion would to go to counselling, go for atleast 10 sessions and let him open up.

also you have take care of yourself as a person, being fat is no excuse. i do not know why some people just accept their life, if being fat is problem, u can change it. goto gym excersie, diet.

 

You have put on weight because he asked you to? Now you are fat. WOW. If BP, Diabetes and Cholesterol issues hit you, who will take medicines? You or Him?

You asked him to prove his loyalty. He asked you for ideas and you want to know how he can win your trust again. You seem very naïve to me.

 

Cut your internet at home. GO offline for a few months. I feel it is good to be away from this nuisance once in a while!

 

I would agree with parvathi above. Shut off the internet somehow first. How does he behave in public with other women? Flirtish or just friendly? That's something to note, to figure out if he's interested only in virtual stuff or outside as well.

Yes, def keep an account of the sites he went to, with print screen images, whatever you can keep as a proof, just in case..

In terms of him getting your trust back, you cannot trust him overnight...Maybe you can check history on the computer every single day? but if he's smart he might delete that too...

I think if this is going on from a long time, you have already given him enough warnings, but haven't taken any serious steps yet, hence he thinks its okay. I would say, first try and communicate - tell him there are kids around the house, hence he cannot do something like that, maybe sleeping on a different bed for a few days/weeks? If you think he's a good father, use this very thing to tell him to stop it - show you he's a good father by stopping such stuff..

 

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contradictions! he chats, flirts in your absence but looks the other side when you are with him.. you believe that he never ogles at other women yet wonder whether he slept with other women? lady.. are you looking for validations to put your trust on him or completely disillusioned? may be you do not find it within you the strength to stand up for yourself? evaluate your options carefully and pick a side.