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Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by JayaJ, Apr 30, 2008.

  1. JayaJ

    JayaJ Senior IL'ite

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    Dear dear all ILites,

    Thank you so much for your kind, loving and encouraging words. I didnt realise i had sooo many friends here who cared. Thank you for support and concern - each one of you.

    Yes, we have to now take care of our mother. Luckily i leave my daughter with her the whole day. My mother adores her granddaughter and she loves every minute of the time spent with her. So, the cutiepie is Godsend. When shes with her granddaugher, my mom tends to forget her worries and just revels in the lil one's antics. But during nighttimes, she hardly sleep, keeps missing dad and cries....:-(( She now is going into depression and makes comments like she wants to join dad soon.....:-((

    Dont know what to say to her as we understand her grief. just hoping she will overcome her grief soon.

    Yes, i have to take care of myself too as i am nurturing a life within.

    Thank you all once more for your love and support.

    Jaya
     
  2. Ranjita Gireesh

    Ranjita Gireesh New IL'ite

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    Dear Jaya,

    My heartfelt condolences to you & and your family and may God rest his soul in peace.

    II know words are not enough to console you but I will pray to God to give you & your family strength and courage to bear this loss.

    Ranjita.
     
  3. anudhar

    anudhar New IL'ite

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    Dear Jaya


    My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Take care of your mother


    bye
    anudhar
     
  4. purnima_2k

    purnima_2k Senior IL'ite

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    Dear Jaya,

    Parents are the only soul in this world who are irreplaceable. But what can be done? Every human who is born has to go some day. I am sure your dad died a happy man. You girls took care of him so well. Even sometimes I get really scared when I think of such things.You have wonderful sisters as well as your mom now. My dear Jaya, please accept my heartfelt condolences .Time is the best heal.We will all collectively pray for the resting of his soul!

    Love,
    Purnima
     
  5. shefali75

    shefali75 New IL'ite

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    Dear jayaj,



    My heartfelt condolences to you & family and pray God for his soul to rest in peace.Please be strong for your mother she need all 3 sisters strength now then ever.

    Take care of your self.

    shefali
     
  6. swetakiran

    swetakiran New IL'ite

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    hello jaya,

    my deep condolences for you and your family.
    yes your daddy is right you 3 girls are gems, took nice care of your father, did your best honey, you take care of your mom and yourself, try to divert her attention by taking her to temples or involve her in some social work, now balancing harmones is very important,

    warm regards,

    shwetha
     
  7. Sashmitaa

    Sashmitaa Senior IL'ite

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    Dear Jaya

    My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Be brave.

    Lakshmi
     
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    paru New IL'ite

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    Dear Jaya,

    My heartfelt condolences to you. Your post reminded me the past. My father passed away 6 yrs back at the age of 50 .My father is my most inspired person in the world.

    Paru.
     
    Last edited: May 2, 2008
  9. sowmyapbhat

    sowmyapbhat Senior IL'ite

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    Dear Jaya,

    My sincere condolences to you and your family. The loss of a loved one is always hard to bear, and nothing can prepare us for the occasion...

    Take heart that you could atleast be with him in his final moments, and you didn't have to hear the news from afar...

    My maternal grandmother passed away yesterday, all of a sudden..It is so painful to be away and not have one last conversation..

    May your father rest in peace, and bless you from above.

    Regards,
    Sowmya
     
  10. Nakshatraa

    Nakshatraa Silver IL'ite

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    Hi Jaya,
    My heart felt condolence for your loving dad's demise.
    Do take care of yourself & your mom too
     

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