Husband and female colleague.

i know many of my friend who tied rakhi got married to the same person little later..
rakhi/friendship band not going to stop an emotional affair.why are you pleading the lady not to go with him..instead ask your husband not to go

 

May be you should discuss this separately with her and let her know that no matter what they say...you do not believe that this relationship is innocent.Let her know that if things go wrong between husband and wife ...she will be responsible too.

It may get her to rethink her support to this shameless son and other woman.

frankly speaking...even if you manage to stop her from going this time...it will not be the end. They are colleagues and as long as he thinks he is right in doing this...there won't be any change.
Sweetshreya is right. some men think they have the wife tied down for life once she gets pregnant and then they can do what they want. If this is the case then there is not much to do for this relationship.

 

If their joint trip goes on .You relax and take care of yourself and the baby.Don't let these people spoil your pregnancy for you. If you need,take your parents emotional support. You can deal with these people after the the baby is born.

 

i know many of my friend who tied rakhi got married to the same person little later..

Trust in your gut instincts, becoz they are true

 

Dear Sonia,

There is nothing sacred in the friendship your husband has with his colleague. No good female will talk about her sob stories to a married man and argue against his wife that she would go with her husband to his native place despite your request not to do so. Your mother in law is no Saint to understand what your husband is thinking. It is your life and you need to do steps to protect your happy life with your husband. Your husband insisting on doing things that you object to with a colleague is incorrect. Even if their relationship is pure, the husband should sacrifice the trip with the colleague for the sake of a pregnant wife.

But I would suggest not to talk to his colleague anymore as your phone calls to her only communicates that your relationship with your husband is very weak. You should be able to communicate strongly with your husband. Please tell him that this trip is not going to be on with her. Anita and many others are right in their judgment.

But when you converse with your husband, please don't bring up any financial matters in your discussion. Tell him that you feel terrible about his traveling with his colleague. Keep repeating it as many times as possible until he listens to you. But don't allow this thought disturb you as you are pregnant. This is no business trip and hence you have every right to express your opinion. He has to overcome his insecurity about his earning less than you and try to lead a happy life with you. Walking alone is okay but 3-4 hours alone appears very strange. He should be spending more time with you when you are pregnant.

Please don't consider his inability to walk away from your marriage as a grip you have on him. He could have extra marital relationship which is as bad as his leaving you. Please forgive me, if any of my opinion is hurtful and I am saying it in your best interest.

Let the Lord shower His Grace for a healthy and happy life for you. Let your future be happy with your husband and child.

Viswa

 

Hi ladies

Why its happening for preg girls... I too facing the same pbm but little different... As you peoples said man are getting affair when his wife got pregnant.. I too facing the same problen... She is calling for loan and my dh got a loan money on time.. After yhat she keep on calling him.. I warned aftee that he scolded her and she stopped one month.. Now again she started by sending message... My dh also arguing for her.. Hmmm

I am also sailing the same boat.. From this i am getting few points..