Give finally Divorce Notice

Hi All,

I am posting after July 4th 2013..Yes, we serve my ex divorce notice...What i was expecting that he might want to talk to me about it that why i took that action ...out of blue he simply call my brother in law and verified about it..i went by mom home just a day before informing about divorce filling so he did not call me yeah he was unhappy that why i am going suddenly or asking his permission.

I also called my landlord to terminate my lease early so she very next morning place house for lease poster outside ...I informed him by sms him that we can live in home till july 31st... but you know what he and his relative after his work went our home and started to took stuff out of home....when i visited home later same day and saw they took tv, microwave, fan, napkins, pillows, bed sheets etc and threw my shoes everywhere in house i felt he and his relative wanted to break lease house i surprised to see that..house was leased on my name so if damages occur so i will be responsible for it..my ex and his relative knew that
after I took my car back in morning... and turned off cell phone service immediately when i saw ex is just taking things out without even talking to me or asking anything. I also request my landlord to change locks so he can not entered again in house.

he called my brother and my brother said no more compromise oh well he contact our local community arbitration and request for leti deti (what i or he owes to eachother) :bonk i was wow even though i am the one who helped him at the time of marriage and after marriage whatever he was earning our expensive $1000+ which was going on my credit debit...but still he went to arbitration for money and stuff...
he also started to tell my friends and his friends that i took his $80,000.00 etc
even though I am the one who helped him by giving $...... amount of money..

now i am waiting him to sign divorce paper and we also agree to go arbitation and ready to show all expense before my family saying just get divorce dont worry about money lost your life save its important..but after his act now i prepared with proof that how much debit i got from our one and half yr of marriage with him...

one thing during this divorce i noticed only money issue they discussed...his parents did not even call us they live in india to know what happened..

As, you guys know i mentioned in my last post that his father ask me to earn $3000 per month and pay half and half for all expenses so his son don't have to worry about working 10 hours a day and he can stay home and study for his prep.

based on his dad and his son communication with me ..I learned they want me to work and earn money not to earn only to pay my school fee. so, that is a major issue as i helped him so much still he looking forward from me to support him financially..his father is doctor in india they said he has 3 clinic etc but my ex did not want from his father any money after we got married..but he wanted me to work enough hours to earn more money along with my studies and taking care of household work.

yes, he was getting mad at me if i say anything why you not giving me time that statement is enough for him to get mad at me and using physical force is so easy for him...he can raise hand on me anytime, at 1 in morning or 4 in the evening lol if i argue or reply back he gets so badly mad at me that he stands up and start grasping my arm tight enough which cause bruises to me, pushing me hard, when i say it hurting me that too not stop him to hurt me more....he continues his abusive verbal and physical behavior until he gets tried or i clam down and listen to him what he says.... such situation and after kind of incidents i only felt to leave him for good...i was compromising at that point too and praying may things get better but above mentioned making money demand just made me wonder is it worth to put more effort and earn more in order to be with this guy in relationship? is he keep me happy after even earning more? does he going to stop physically and verbally abuse me?
does he really love me?

All these question answers was so doubtful to me...i thought about it more than 100 times before making decision of stepping out from marriage relationship from him.
Now my question for you all is did i made right decision? i don't know why i am feeling i made wrong decision i know i made right but still don't know what making me to rethink? May be i am such gal who just wanted to married with 1 person and spent life with him but i guess things do not happen as we want.
i want to know do you think my husband loves me in this 1 and half year of marriage truly? i feel i don't have its answer as well because he hardly in once a month make love with me even we were newly married couples..he always worried about his career, settlement in usa and parents..there was time i felt he married with me to get support so he can setup fast but his love and affection i did not get much he was kissing and hugging almost everyday but making love is something he was thinking if made than he will fell asleep and waste a day so he was avoiding at day time and night time he so tried that he does not want at all...in morning of course work..
DID i made decision in rush? or I really safe my life from hell? answer me all i need your suggestion i wrote because all theses thinking incidents, last 1 and half year or marriage life good and bad both making me to think and rethink. Now, i cant change what has happened but i want to know my decision per your view was correct?

Many of you will say rita you asked so many time u acted and still confused:bonk than my answer to you that yeah i need to share with someone and i have to post this in order to get to know honest answer from you all... Thank you