Need advice with physical needs

When there is no option you need to shift your thought.. If you are not dying or interested in that need this thread would not have been posted.

 

Hi Distresslady,

Well,in my opinion one will enjoy the experience when they are physically as well as mentally close with that person.
Try to find that special someone waiting for you and who would love to spend the rest of his life with you.
Since you did not gave yourself even to your hubby means you didnt find him worthy enough.Choose the right one.Decision is yours.
Just dont want some sick guy to exploit your emotional state and use you for fun.

 

Yes, please be careful and always trust your intuition - there are lots of such 'respectable' predators lurking about targeting the lonely in the guise of romance.

 

Having the same issue here too... if you find any solution please let me know..

 

Marriage is a sacred union whether it happens for the first time or nth time.Since you are divorced doesn't mean that you can find anyone for short term happiness and then think about marriage with another guy later.Instead focus on finding a right guy to settle down with and then consummate your marriage,that way you will feel more confident and active and it also gives you a sense of pride about yourself for being loyal to your future husband.

 

what a dilemma!

 

How come issues are same?

http://www.indusladies.com/forums/married-life/223422-help-needed.html

you seem to be still Married and seriously considering Cheating instead of putting effort on finding whats wrong with marriage or may be are hiding the facts.

http://www.indusladies.com/forums/general-discussions/223435-do-you-ever-cheat-your.html

http://www.indusladies.com/forums/keep-fit-and-maintain-shape/223427-weight-problem.html

I cant understand the relation between you both!

 

I meant how come your(on the way of divorce) case is similar to that of divya (still married/looking for EMA). I think if someone is denied basic rights then they should go ahead and separate and then start looking for someone better but the idea of staying in relationship(which divya still seems to be in) and doing it doesnt seem to make sense to me.

 

Hi, As a divorcee for the past two years, I understand the need for physical needs. I realize your situation is slightly different as you have never experienced it, mine was a disinterested spouse whom I had to beg for sex every time, like a tramp. Oh well. Here are my 2 cents: I feel you are in a vulnerable situation and having just a physical relationship without feeling emotional intimacy is pretty hard to achieve, and might make u feel worse later.Unless the guy is a saint, he might probably end up using you, or even worse hurting you.The biggest question is this worth it, is it worth feeling used or getting hurt. I would suggest get completely out of your marriage and allow yourself sometime to heal before you find the right person for you. Hang in there, and wishing you all the best