Suggestions and advice needed ( trouble from ex lover)

How ex BF got your phone number?
Go to the police if he persists, be brave.
Sounds filmy.
PS -The forum is flooded with new members without any profile, just joining date.
They are in a hurry to get solutions to their problems ...............

 

Next time when your EX lover calls you and talks something about having affair, record everything and show it to your husband.

Tell your husband everything about your past..and relation with Ex-lover. Convey your husband that you love your husband than anything else in the world and you can't stay without your husband.

 

On the first day itself acc to me , you should have told your hubby meet my ex. He started coming to your house and you are kind of responsible for giving fire to his feelings.

Anyways before the husband, first attend just one and last call from ex tell him clearly, you are not interested in the offer he gave...nothing more nothing less. Don't talk much.

Second tell husband that he's the ex you mentioned about and you understand he's your colleague but its kind of awkward to bring him home and you feel awkward.

I feel your husband will get the message...no need to provide too much information and after that never ever utter his name infront of husband. Stop giving importance to your ex and dont be afraid...that will make you do stupid things.

 

I remember a tamil movie now . [Parthiban , Divya Unni , Ranjith ] . Ooops forgot the movie name .

 

Yeah similar story, Parthiban will become blind...the name of movie is Sabash. It was remade in Hindi with Arjun rampal in the lead.

 

Husband should change jobs because some creep is blackmailing? Too farfetched is it not?

OP- if you have the text show it to your husband ASAP. The relationship was in distant past and you have don't nothing wrong. Blackmail is illegal- a better option tell your husband and both of you go to cops with those text as evidence of blackmail.

 

Next time again if he calls or threatens u to have affair etc....tell him firmly that...if he repeats again u will take legal action against him and dont shy out from reporting FIR in Police station...

 

many movies have the same story line. u can watch them to help u decide the course of action.

 

Just asking, what if the movie op watches ends with heroine pairing with the ex BF than settle with H:rotfl

 

most of the indian movies show the heroine sticking with the hero (husband) in the end. the power of the 'mangalsutra' yada yada... ek bharatiya nari ki sanskar...... and all that stuff. so the OP should be alright if she sticks with hindi/regional language Indian movies.

btw, does any movie show otherwise? unless ofcourse its an abusive marriage and the husband is the villain and the movie is about woman power.