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The relevance of men's posts in relationship section

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  1. aminroop

    aminroop IL Hall of Fame

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    well, basically every woman trusts her 'instincts' and most of the time she is not wrong. so if a person keeps complimenting me or anyone else and their instincts told them something was wrong, then they wud take offense. also, knowing his voyeuristic tendency, since I have been an active member for sometime and having clearly said I wasn't comfortable with compliments from strangers, a normal person wudnt persist at it.

    anyways what may seem 'decent' to u, may not be so to me. and what is 'harassment' to me need not be so to u.
     
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  2. abla

    abla Gold IL'ite

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    Doesn't Aminroop's profile clearly states she is MARRIED .
     
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    abla Gold IL'ite

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    Most DECENT Women (married women )should just ignore the IM or if offended report it to moderators NOT reply "Thanks for the compliment but I am happily married and hope you find someone you like "

    Yeah ...We should even wish him Good luck in his future endeavours with IM ing other HOT members ...REALLY ?????

    Clearly this is my view and my views on how decent people should respond .
     
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    anushri IL Hall of Fame

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    Change your settings, so that strangers cannot PM you. Do not accept friend request from male members or unknown female members. There are chances of male using female userids.
     
  5. prettydevil

    prettydevil Platinum IL'ite

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    13 pages!! ... and I still was not able to get "The relevance of men's posts in relationship section" or did I miss anything .... :bonk
     
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  6. aminroop

    aminroop IL Hall of Fame

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    ask the OP, PD. he is online. :) he he.
     
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    :notthatway: DG .... coz if that happens, then we will have no one to corner to :rotfl:rotfl
     
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    steve Platinum IL'ite

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    Yes, of course. It's one's prerogative. If such an IM came from someone, I assume that there is some online exchange of ideas/posts and some familiarity between them. Also "you look pretty" may not be as upsetting to one as "you look hot".

    Yes, I don't intend to tell how one must feel. Not my intent. I may have used "may" in my post. If not, it's an inadvertent oversight.
     
  9. Decentguy

    Decentguy New IL'ite

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    Agreed, but the main word/phrase here is MOST of the time, not ALL the time, so there are chances, women are wrong SOME of the time
     
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    Angry birds ??
     
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