AMMA!! now iam confident!!!

amma,
as a daughter i had a complaint on you.
you never allowed me to learn the things.
you never involved me in functions and manage the things.
but always you give chance to my sister who is younger than me.
when my wedding was fixed you arranged things with the help of your younger DD.
even you went onto prepare a list of things which you were about to give me. but you did not give it to me.
at the time of her marriage as i was busy with my ill fated fil,you expected me as a guest only.that time also i didn't get the chance
instead you showed the list her by saying see,i've given you the same to same things like her(me) and showed your motherhood by treating both of us equally.
there after also any function you arranged on behalf of me you called your younger dd and assigned the duty to her.
on seeing this even relatives started telling she(my sister) is more close to you and she has become your right hand.
but you did not understand my feelings.
whenever i offered to come early you simply told me with sis you would manage.
mamma,even though i am a mother of daughters you preferred to transfer your treasure of knowledge to my sister who is having only one son.
why this partiality?
in future if i have to do the things for my kids in your absence how can i do it?
but you are very clever mamma.
i need to learn a lot from you.
when i expressed my feelings to you what was your answer?
even it put me in a position to increase my praising about you.
i never forget your answer which stated you are having only dds.and she is longing for dds. if i train her(my younger sis) with the traditions she will
be there for you in every thing.by this way you cannot avoid her in any thing and she will have the satisfaction of doing every thing for a dd of whom she is not blessed with.
mamma,i understood clearly. by training her you not only give me a sister but also an event manager.
even if i am not able to inculcate every thing in my dds what ever i received from you,surely i will train my dds to go in hands to hand with each other.
thank you mamma.
now i am confident.

 

thank you viji mam for your first fb.
i couldnot stop myself in praising you as i get surely your feed back always in my threads..as i said earlier,all of a sudden nowadays i found my self busy in posting here.
true to myself after reading your posts only i have learnt the art of posting every thought of mine nicely.
regarding this post me also doing the same. instead of my younger dd i found strong potential in my elder one. so she will be my flag bearer.

 

thank you.

 

THANK YOU VIJI MAM FOR YOUR WISHES.WHEN MY FIRST THREAD LANDED IN THE FINEST FORUM IT SURPRISED ME. becoz i did not realize that my writings can be enjoyable. the likes i received and the comments from ilites made me enthu and nowadays while getting up itself i have started thinking what to write.

 

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dear viji mam even though your posts are not nominated you are the one who encourages others for having entered into the finest forum.it shows your experience as an elder and your machurity.:thumbsup
thank you for your encouragement and i am happy now that i've landed in snippest section where i can get the guide lines and blessings of elders like you.:bowdown