Newly Married - Questions about Intimacy!

Hello Rosemary,

Try kegel exercises, that may help u. While in foreplay u could try doing it. Look up for more info abt kegels on the net. That wil help stimulate you sooner than u think. Worth trying. All the best !!

 

Thanks ppl for the replies! Will try applying coconut oil... Will also lookout about this kegel exercise. Hearing about it for the first time!

 

For all such intimacy questions. try answers from "google".

 

hi
I too have some and using normal wax on these . it helps

 

Dear Doctor,

We are married and no kids yet.

Right from HM, my husband wanted to do unnatural sex ( as shown in some CD's he has ) . He tried and failed to penetrate it there. It was very painful for me and I did not enjoy at all. But he says it is very common and I should not refrain from it..He applied his Saliva for lubrication..But still failed miserably and he blames me that I am not cooperative...

He consumes Alcohol before the act. Is it the reason for penetration failure?
Is their any medicine available to ease the pain?

He also ask me to consume his sperm, which I don't like too...But he force
me to do it. Is it harmful? When I refuse, he use condom sometimes..

Is this normal in married life?.. Or something wrong with my DH ?
Is it necessary to tell my parents about this weird behavior? Shall we consult a Psychologist?

 

Hi ladies,

I have a question..or rather an observation. Only when I wear sexy clothes before sex, do i get aroused. If I am at home in my pyjamas, after all the household work, if my DH wants to have sex, I simply don't feel upto it or even get too aroused. My hubby sometimes expects a quickie and at these times I just dont feel upto it..
Is this how it works for most women? Just curious, so asking.

Fiona

 

This thread is closed,
No answers. No suggestions !!

 

Pls help

Hi,

Im 28 years old and got married 2 months ago
Whenever my husband tries to insert his penis into my vagina, i feel very bad pain and start crying

My husband also does not force me,

Pls suggest me to take care of this , we are planning to have a baby

Thanks in advance

 

KY jelly is the best solution here... u can get it from any local med store...

 

Re: Pls help

From my experience, try natural options like extended foreplay, be liberal to use ur mouth on each others' private. That sets enough lubrication. Lastly from our expereience, even after these foreplays your husband should not expect to get entered in one go. Its all should happen slow and steady, ofcourse patience. Dont get used to jellies ( my personal opinion ) since this is ur early married days, u can do naturally. Otherwise u might start to get dependent on that