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Discussion in 'Life Without Spouse' started by preity12, May 8, 2013.

  1. preity12

    preity12 Senior IL'ite

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    Hi all,
    I want to pose a question to all. Is it wrong to chat with a friend of opposite sex at odd hours like late nights especiallly when that friend had special feelings for you?

    Guys plz advice
     
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  2. getstrngth

    getstrngth Gold IL'ite

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    If the feelings is mutual then its not a problem... But if its a timepass just to make urself comfortable feel special etc doesn't sound good...
     
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  3. preity12

    preity12 Senior IL'ite

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    Actually I needed someone to talk to since there are lot of issues / personal problems.
    It is not that I discuss my personal problems but just general talks but sincerely speaking it helps me relax... :(
    Sometimes I feel I am taking advantage of him...
     
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    FE40 Silver IL'ite

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    No true friend will think you are taking advantage of him.

    But yes definitely there are chances of you both become emotionally connected .....

    So proceed to do so, if you too have special feeling for him ....
     
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    rose2000 Silver IL'ite

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    Depends on at what stage of life are you in. whether you are married/ single and whether he is married/single.
    If you both are married and chatting is time pass then its not good.
     
  6. steve

    steve Platinum IL'ite

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    This usually leads to each of you giving each other what they want... and after that he may not be too bothered to offer you a shoulder to cry on...
     

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