OP- I just came across your thread from another post on another thread. you seem to have written my life here, barring a few details - but the troubles and emotional distraught was the same. And just like you, This forum and the lovely ladies here played a very very BIG role in turning my life for the better. The only difference? you put it in writing beautifully and in a very organized manner, I couldn't. :clap
All those points are very good ! Its a tight rope walk between defending oneself and enjoying what one likes and hurting others though. But having financial and emotional independence and some interesting hobbies are very important in my opinion.
Hi HPT Your post is inspiring. Thinking of my MIL FIL SIL ... I will have Sleepless Nights But your thoughts and truely motivational Thanks for sharing
Hi Hpt, Really inspiring and motivating!Well written.... I am new to this forum... After reading ur experience everyone who is facing the same situation will definitely become bold and strong enough to face all the situations.I am one of them.... I have faced so many problems , but just cried and cursed my fate for all what is happening... I don't share my personal life with anyone and thought every married woman is happy except me now a days... But after reading the mails in this forum I am shocked....every woman is facing such situation...my god!!! Y don't DH and Inlaws understand theirs wife or DIL 's heart. Thanks.
Hi HPT, You have covered it all. Thanks, this really helps lot of us. P.S: I too have a dream of having a personal library and I'm still on it. Never lose toch with books.
Hi Hpt, u did a wonderful thing in pouring all ur thoughts here in writing. After reading ur post all women will start loving themselves more and will be happy throughout:clap It is a good thing u have passed the bad phase of your life within short period of time. :thumbsup