SIL stole my peace and innocence!!!

Thanks ashwini...Here DIL will never get anykind of appreciation....i know i will get only criticism....sometimes thinks better not give her a glass of water(this is only thinking...i know i can't do this with anyoone)...anyways will get only criticism.

 

I got pm.... some suggestions of my problem: well suggest me which one is gud.
1. She will attack me by her words....everytime. attack before she attacks. take her in kitchen...don't let her start...this time you start with smile on your face.
2. she sometimes pass nasty comments in front of everyone....leave that place immediately.
3. when she comes to our use your ear phoneand put some spiritual shlokas or mantra ..serve her well(food ) and gifts her well.
4. Leave your house and go for movie alone or with your friend and make sure u keep ready food for her . ask her brother to serve.
5. confront in front of everyone.ask them i am not going to tolerate her anymore.
6. ASK HER: if u want respect from me...u have to give first . and control on your tongue..than only i will entertain you.

tell me frineds which one is tricky n useful .

 

thanks dear!!!

I did this too...one day after all totures.....she asked me...agar aapke sath koi chalaki dikhaye to aap kya karogi...i replied...nahi dikhayenge to aap bech kar kha jaaogi....when my daughter born according to ritual i gave her gold earrings(12k) ahe asked i want gold chain too(15k)....i asked FIL to buy chain for her....he bought chain....she said to me u are clever!!! she did big drama....
she made my hell when my daughter born....she asked me....bhabhi aapki kundali mein vaidhavaya(widow) yog
likha hai....how can she say this for her own brother....i complaint to FIL....sil made another story...
once she said....mera bas chale to apna bhai isse cheen luun.....then i left her....i am not in talking terms with her...but she is thick skinned women...she knows how to put any one down..she just want to insult me in every manner....
once i confront her...my hubby was with me....but till 4 months...nobody spoke with us...sil, mil, bil, cosis, and when we were calling fil...fil was passing sarcastic comments to me in every call becoz i didn't treat her daughter like an angel.

 

hey blessed...thanks dear...actually my dh also suggest me ....
minimize talk with cosis
and talk with her about sil...if she again bitching about cosis...change the topic or tell i m not interested....
so cosis is not a problem....i m really scared with sil.

 

Thanks Juhi...

 

Thanks blessed....actually.....i m scared not becoz her father's property....BECOZ if i will not entertain her like she wants...she will make story in front of FIL with lots of TEARS in her eyes....my hubby don't know how to
act ?? I can but no body is going to believe me after all i m their DIL not daughter.