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Husband moods change so frequent, he is very Possesive

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  1. Mona Gupta

    Mona Gupta Senior IL'ite

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    Hallo Ladies,
    normally i m silent reader, try to leran from you all much for my life path.
    My husband is moody and Possesive.
    I cant remember in our last 15 years a month where he dont get moody and kranky.
    i found myself with him.
    Otherwise he is nice, but i dont want to adjust more on his moods.
    i just lead my life with my kids, calmy and try to be happy in myself.

    Sometime i ask myself and my heart why
    women ist like a Plant she needs water of love and affection and she can do everything for her family but if she get angry moods she cant be in love for a long life.

    may be its heard harder but life teach us lots of things.

    regards
    mona
     
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  2. MaritalBliss

    MaritalBliss Platinum IL'ite

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    Pls provide more details..are there any triggers to these mood swings? What makes him angry? Is he violent, abusive or suspicious during these episodes?
     
  3. Anitap

    Anitap IL Hall of Fame

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    Is he moody (as in sad, quiet, withdrawn) or did you mean moody (as in angry mood / violent)?
     
  4. Mona Gupta

    Mona Gupta Senior IL'ite

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    thx for asking, yes he ist sometime suspicious, angry, he talks like a Mothe in law from a tv episode. He can be very sharp in his language.
    Sometime he seems like depressive, unsure, i try to talk to him. I ay again and again speak softly.
    Sometime he react like a Kid, he listen, he look then very tired and confused.
    But sometime he ist stubborn, unconsiously he shows negative energy.
     
  5. Mona Gupta

    Mona Gupta Senior IL'ite

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    Thanks is advance.
    Looking forward to see your valueabel Tipps and Response.
     
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    Anitap IL Hall of Fame

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    Have him checked for Bp, diabetes etc - a master health check up.
     
  7. Vemala

    Vemala Gold IL'ite

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    How about his Work condition. Stress makes all these attributes. Yoga can resolve all these issues. Atleast Surya namaskara in the morning will definitly resolve this.

    Normal man should have all these attributes in specified % else he will be called abnormal. So be happy. Check office condition, stability of work and stress due to more work hours.

    ACT ACT ACT . DONT OVER REACT for his condition. Dont disturb him when he is moody. Its like passing clouds later sky will looks normal. Bare for some time.
     
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    cedantseq New IL'ite

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    well talk to him,if he does not respond to you, ask his friends about his problem. find out what happened in office, and then act. if nothing works, talk to some elders in your family to talk to him, as it affects you and family
     
  9. RamyaSridhar1978

    RamyaSridhar1978 Gold IL'ite

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    1) Do a health checkup .... Thyroid is known to cause such mood swings ... It could be male menopause too (dnt know hw old you guys are )
    2) enquire about the stress in office

    3) engage him in any form of excercise .... Lastly encourage / keep putting some devotional any music you / he likes ... Music therapy does wonders !
     
  10. Mona Gupta

    Mona Gupta Senior IL'ite

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    Hallo
    thanks a lot for the tipps.
    I will try to follow.
    He is not doing well in his office, he wants to change job.
    There r some other topics also like i was working before 32 hours now 40 hours.
    We got some relationproblem also

    thansks fpor support
     

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