Is my husband normal?

Well, i choose to disagree with what simonsays has to say, the first and foremost important aspect of BDSM lifestyle is finding out how it can work for you. Normally, in india, married woman are already in a BDSM relation, where they are told what to do, how to do and when to do. We dont need much learning there.

Coming to how it can spice your life, trust me,it is incredible, when done in the right consensual manner. First you need to find out your likes and dislikes.
then , you need to find out what are the scenarios that you need to play out.
then you need to know whether it has to be short term or long term.

You need to set limits and safewords.

it is a planned effort from both ends rather than one partner . it brings out the duality and certainly encourages mutual respect. if anyone would like to debate,im open.