Wife extra marital relation caught - Applying divorce - Need suggestion

stay calm and be strong.. as long as i dont know you personally, i have no right to judge you...
if you are accused of coming here for sympathy then i guess 90% of posts in IL would have to deleted lol....

 

jaane do riya
To each, her own... think like that...

 

I am not here to talk about her character.But its not the girls mistake..Its her parents mistake.Why should they even let 16 years child to marry? Why indian parents are behaving like idiots? 13 years age gap is too too much... I pity your sister in law.Because she is such a young girl who lost her teen age enjoyments...If i were you, i would try to contact her parents and ask them to take care of her for some 4 years and do continue her education.Once she becomes matured, they should let the girl marry. I will not blame the girl.How can we expect maturity from a teen age girl. I should blame her parents. 99% indian parents interefere in their sons/daughters life and spoil it. Ask your bro to get divorce and let the girl marry a broadminded guy once she gets matured enough to handle a relationship. I will pray god for your brother and the small girl. If i were her sister in law, I would definitely ask her to continue her highers and a lead a good life independtly... Your brother can throw her beacuse she cheated her according to him.But you can even try to talk to her parents to let her study and lead her life independently...

 

/if your own brother was going through a horrible time.. will u sit locked up saying "its not my business" or will u stand by your brother and help him mentally...especially since her brother seems to be a soft person...before blasting her think about this in her own shoes... nowhere in her post did i fee like she hates her SIL... Suma is not helping her SIL get hanged or anything.. she is just standing with her bro..../
My brother will never come to me or my parents and complain about his wife.Because he is matured enough to handle things by himself and its their personal.And I as a sister will never interfere.Most of the indian guys behave like a child. But i bet my brother would have handled this more better without letting third persons(me,my mom/dad,her mom/dad) into any matter.

 

just Hilarious!

 

Dear SumaRamesh Sister,

Yes, time only should heal. May Baba give each one of you in the entire family good strength and courage to face these odd situtaions, and let Baba bless your homes with peace and hapiness soon eradiacting this problem.

 

sick of these self congratulatory posts