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  1. Mar 9, 2008 #31
    Honeytha

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    Hai Sundari,

    Nice to c read ur explanation...........thanks for sharing.........

    This is a day to day :bang between both husband and wife...........Fight is a not written rules and regulations.........Rant between both.......

    So everybody will undergo the fight.............Happy fighting ILites.........Big Laugh
     
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    sunkan

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    dear singhu,
    fight comes in the first place to be solved and what more better way to express the displeasure otherwise it would lead to health hazards, so this small bursts are your fuse that goes and should be rewired...yes fight becomes to big to handle if someone interferes like how shanthi has mentioned here, other wise it would subside on their own well,, you forgot to mention how he manaos you after the fight, the beauty lies there..sunkan
     
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    sunkan

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    arrey hanitha,
    fight every one does tell me how he manaos u what is his style of making up with u, or you with him..sunkan
     
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    Sriniketan

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    Sunkan,
    Enjoyed reading all the posts and your replies.

    The fight must be like passing clouds otherwise if it stays only flood na...
    As agreed small fights spice up the marriage, too much spice is bad too....
    We should know where to draw the line and move on..after all fights are nothing less than venting out, no health problems, healthy family..

    Nice sloka to note down, which i did already.

    sriniketan
     
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    Sindhurao

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    Sunkan ma'am:

    Wish the way he manaos was memorable. All he does manage to do is act as if there was nothing out of the ordinary that happened. And I end up thinking I over reacted to the whole episode!?!

    Sindhu
     
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    sunkan

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    srini it is not sloka,
    it is just the sanskrit version of what has been explained..
    if there is no fight then life would be uppu chappu illada vishayam,
    so the spice and then the making up is he sweet desert, but many men feel saying sorry, they dont know the secret of saying sorry, they would become even more lovable after that..sunkan
     
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    sunkan

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    dear sindhu,
    he does not know the beauty of it, pavam i can only feel sorry for him..sunkan
     
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    DEAR MAM

    Thank u for explaining sloka with the meaning...........and u r right.....thank u for sharing....

    Shanthi - veda u r right.......

    Puni ..and Latha u r 1000% right..........
     
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    Dear Sunkan, agreed. A very good topic. May i ask where do u stay in B'lore?
     
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    Hi Sunkan

    You are absolutely right. Fighting are just a passing moments.

    For me, at the end of every good fights we feel closer to each other. And, as the years passed, we developed better communication and better ways of feeling closer!!!!

    Cheers
    Parul
     
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